Same thing happened to me!!! I kept talking about he was supposed to propose to me, & he ended up proposing to another girl in less than 2 months. I had visualized him proposing to me for Christmas, & while that didn't happen, I ended up finding out that he was planning on proposing to me for Christmas. Then through what I still don't understand he left me and got with another girl & proposed to her within two months. I agree with you...that was supposed to be me. We have had no contact since January when he left me for the other girl. So I just wanted to say I find it interesting u went through the same thing! My only thought..I see you were focusing on him and engagement..are you sure you focused on it being with YOU enough??? Or do u think more energy went to just him getting engaged in general?? Bc I have thought about this as well.

I don't know how to let go of this news but I will keep reading other succes stories until they get in my "thick" head

I would say that maybe directing your energy away from that person would be a good thing to do. Maybe start moving on but keep the possibility alive, say to the universe that all you want is to be happy and then trust that everything that is happening is ultimately going to lead to your greatest happiness in the near future. Although we can manifest what we want, it really tends to only be the case when we are in certain mindsets and it's hard to get to those mindsets. The ultimate challenge I feel is getting to the exact vibration of what it is you want, because it's about having a balance of wanting but not needing, which is very hard especially in love. I thought I was detached from my outcome enough recently that I expected something I thought was going to happen, but it didn't manifest, and it did leave me more disappointed than I had anticipated being. I'm still struggling to get back my confidence in myself and enjoy life again, for the last few days I've been pretty down. I think that it would be ok for you to actually get into the mindset that you would if you had done the breaking up and decided that you wanted to move on. By moving on though you never actually tell the universe that you don't want to get back together, it's not like you're opposed to the idea so you're not adding resistance, but it tells the universe you're not relying on the outcome of this current situation to dictate your romantic life, which in my opinion, is one of the most important aspects on life and we shouldn't deprive ourselves of it for any reason. Or, you can do what I did do to get back my ex one time and that was just decide that I would not go near another person, I basically took a vow that I would only be with that specific person, even though I was still going out and living life. He came back, but, there was a power imbalance when we got back together, he took me for granted because I was granted, he knew I didn't want to go anywhere and I wasn't going to go anywhere. That's why I'm not totally sure if that's the right attitude to take. When you do find yourself in a place of detachment and a place where you can accept whatever outcome, then maybe that's when you could take some action and contact him on a neutral friendly tone and that's when it would really be decided whether or not your manifestation will take place the way you want or whether there is something better in store for you. 

LaughBella14 wrote:

BooLala wrote:

Michelle wrote:

I really don't want to post negative things on this forum but I have no idea what I am doing wrong. He is engaged and that is what I wished for us. Without wishing for it the news came to me and I now who she is and I just can't help but feel mad because I know her she was a coworker of his and in just six months they are already engaged. All I visualised this past months was our engagement..

So.... what are you worried about. You should read my previous posts, my girl was engaged to her ex and I got her back. Now were madly in love with one another. She's told me she wants to marry me and even wants us to have children together.

I do not mean to hijack your thread, Michelle, & I'm not-I promise!! I just wanted to say to this, your story was really uplifting to Me, however..the one thing that is different for me from most people is that I am not in contact w him & have not heard from him in 4 months since he has been with his now fiance. You were in contact even when she was engaged, weren't you? Most ppl here are still in somewhat contact. I am not, Are you Michelle?

No we haven't spoken in 6 months. I still have common friends and that is how I found out about it. He has been avoiding me at all costs I didn't even know he was dating and now I find out that he is engaged. That is why I am starting to loose hope because there has not been a single sign from him..
 

Folks, it's as simple as this. You were all vibrating strongly around "engaged" and "when will it be MY TURN, MEEEEE!"

Then you were vibrating "my lover has gone, we were supposed to be engaged, engaged, engaged!"

What are the 2 dominant points sticking out here?
And were you mostly on the positive, joyful end of things, or the negative?
And what transpired?
Perfect LOA.
Every time.