Not sure if anyone here knows my story, I love this forum but its hard to follow all the stories and give the best input to posts but I do try so I'm hoping maybe people here can help me a bit more with mine (I've had great help from here so far) this time I'm contemplating asking him for coffee to have a very quick catch up. Been apart for a year, he is still with the girl who wiggled herself into his life after our break up, they were away for a long time in India, now he's back and still with her but our last interaction went so well and it was in person and last week and it was an accidental run in where he was with her but gushed out praises for me even calling me beautiful and saying how good I was to him and how he hasn't forgotten our relationship. Im going away for the summer but I'm contemplating asking him for a very easy coffee with no talking about us, just very very light once off catch up. Ive been doing rs on him and I think its working. The worse he can say is no, I'm thinking its nearly worth a try? If he says yes it would be a great way of showing him how ive grown over the past year and then I'll go away for the summer and that might give him something to think about and end his thing with the girl. Any thoughts? He wouldn't really ask me for coffee but maybe he wants to see me but needs it to be me asking so he can tell the girl it was a special last favour and she won't get angry. Thoughts ?