Ugh. She ignored my phone calls (Sent one to voicemail, and never got back to me) - and now she's pinning things on pinterest.

She's distancing herself, and I'm in a really bad place....

God I just want our relationship back! I love her...

Oasiscalm wrote:

Oasiscalm wrote:

Take a step back from the situation. At the moment you are very desperate and miserable.

Yes you can have her back. But you need to start with getting yourself back.

Heal yourself from the situation. Do some meditation on calming you anxiety and need for her. Your efforts to attract her back will only be effective if they are built on a strong foundation.

Start reading some basic LOA text to refresh on rising your vibration and getting into a more stable happy place, then you can start adding intentions and visualisations for attracting her back. But if you attempt it from where you are now it is going to be extremely difficult and potentially cause you more distress if you don't see the results you want.

Take care of yourself.

@RollingRock I'm sorry that you are having a hard time. I know this isn't what you want to hear but you really need to step away from the situation, leave her be for a while and focus on getting yourself back to a place of calm and sincerity.

I reposted what I said over a week ago because it's important you understand that from where you are right now you are not going to successfully attract and maintain a relationship with this girl.

You CAN have her back. Chant that for a while so you understand it. It's done she can be yours, but not as you are know.

Think of an injured athlete, they don't turn up to their next competition in crutches and expect to win. They go away heal and mental and physically retrain themselves back to peak form.

Right now you are injured from heartbreak. Take the time to heal yourself. Let the past go. Focus yourself and mentally retrain yourself to get to the place of strength and confidence. Then you will be in the right mindset to get this girl back with ease.

So, UPDATE. 

I spent time with her today and we were joking around a lot. She bought me dinner since I forgot my money at home (gah). And later, she made a "cum" joke, so she's openly talking about sex with me (that's a flirty/good sign I guess?) - And she was very flirty - after making jokes at her expense (we do this stuff back and forth. Nothing rude. Completely playful), she play hits me on the shoulder. 
Then, later on, she bought cookies, and said in a fun tone, "if you take one, I'll slap you. They're MY cookies. You can't have any" (spoken all 'fun like').  In my car, she ate a cookie, then offered me one. I obliged and took one. She slapped me, playfully, laughing, saying, "I just did that so I could slap you," with a fun, smiling look on her face.


These are all good signs that she has feelings or interest, yes?