There's a new barrier to my situation that my best friend told me about, because she's very intuitive and she has an uncanny ability at understanding certain people including my person. She says that she thinks that he definitely has a huge amount of attraction and love for me and is finally himself coming to see that our relationship wasn't as bad as he previously thought it was, but that he has a lot of guilt inside of him now for being a bad boyfriend to me at times and he's trying to change himself because he wants to be a good guy...which means he wants to be a good boyfriend to this girl he is with which means he is going to do everything in his power to avoid me now or at least not get tempted. I know this is the case. He doesn't love her, he just wants to do 'right'. I know he's stubborn and that the only way to break down this resistance in him is to somehow get near him again physically...I'm trying out lanie's method in trying to visualise him contacting me first in the next two weeks because I'll be leaving the country soon. Do you think it's better to visualise contact from him or maybe just visualise being with him soon? Is contact too hung up on the 'how'? And what if I get in a vibe where I feel confident to contact him for a meet up? I know when he saw me in person two nights ago it was as if all his resistance fell down for a moment but then he remembered that the girl was right there and he told me that 'now is not the time' after telling me such nice stuff about myself to me, it was almost like he had to stop himself from falling back in love at that moment by shutting it down because he said too much. Any tips?