He blocked me on some stuff in Facebook...I can't even see him online...what the hell...the other day he apologized for being mean to me now this...



Update my sister can't even see things. He did this for everyone. I need to work on not jumping to conclusions.

I wasn't ready to add the apps back. I removed them again feels good to do that. I need to trust the universe because clearly it delivers.

Last edited by confused1077 (4/17/2016 11:33 am)

I got my ex back from the situation you're talking about but he left again a few months later, so I mean, I have the concept of how to get them back but unfortunately that can be the easy part, keeping them can be hard especially if you have any unresolved issues from your own childhood or past that come up when you're in close relationships, this is what happens to me. I have a feeling that even though you're coming on here asking for advice, you're not willing to actually follow the best advice for your situation because you're in a high emotional state right now. Let me warn you, everything you do when you're in a desperate, sad, confused, frustrated or upset state is WRONG. Like attracts like...act on those emotions, you will create more of those emotions for yourself. You need to actually leave the situation for a while, basically take a holiday from it, it's messing with your mental health. Find a role model for yourself, a celebrity who you admire, and try emulate their habits or traits. Maybe a character from a film or book. I sometimes think to myself 'what would audrey hepburn do', it starts me off in the path of feeling good about myself and having boundaries and also feeling beautiful. Then start to make actions. In your situation, my idea is that Audrey Hepburn would get quite angry, cry a little, then put on nice clothes and go and have a wild night out with her friends and decide that the person in question is an ass and quite pathetic. LOA is all about your aura, your vibe. Don't let yourself be used as a doormat, no man is worth that, and that's not love. If you take a holiday from this situation and then re look at what is going on, maybe you will change your mind about this person, it feels like this person is not in a state for you to be with him. He's probably just in a stage in his life he wants to play around or something.

ok so next step is to attract him, you have your opening , the universe has given you a window, so pounce on it... ;D get into the vibe of confidence, dress up, ask him out for coffee, take the chance ! (so long as your in an absolutely amazing vibe) wow him over so he doesn't even feel bad about the other girl and him not working out anymore. Make him realise he's been so blind and he's damn lucky to have a girl like you, think the final scene from Grease

There really are a few pathways you can go about this that different LOA coaches would advise. I, personally, have been a believer that the first important step is to get into the right vibration but then the second important step is to have your eyes open for information and then to take action. You really would need to be in the right vibration before taking any action though or it will backfire. So if you think you are in a shakey or low vibration because this worry that he still likes the other girl is still there, then it's actually better for you to step back and regroup so you can live to fight another day. This may not be the right time to initiate contact with him, or maybe it is a good time, only you can figure that out. Is your vibration good? If you did see him for coffee would you be able to be smile and laugh and be cheerful and pleasant or would you be worried, serious, cautious, nervous, holding back, sad? If you think the latter, your best bet is to go strict no contact until you can achieve the former. Stay away from him for as long as your vibration is off kilter. Go near him if you think you would have a pleasant time with him. Friends with benefits is disrespecting your feelings and your desires. Never lower yourself like that again, it won't work in your favour unless you want the same thing too. If he offers that or tries to sleep with you again, cut that off immediately and tell him assertively that you're not down with that, you're down with casually dating without anything physical (except kissing) that might lead somewhere or just platonic friends but you don't do casual sex, sorry.

Omg he said this:
I don't think I could ever be mad at you. Like honestly. You'll always be a special part of my life. No matter how shitty in treat you you're still a part of my life. I feel better. Not where I want to be but better. I just wish you didn't worry about us. You're going to be stuck with me and me with you regardless if we want it haha

I can work with this! 😆