This guy I have been telling you about for months went on a date with someone Sunday, it went well, and I am trying to think they will just end up friends later . I know this girl and she knows me she even knew us when we were together. Anyways how do I get past this? I am telling myself that he loves me and wants to be with me. I have a question I don't know why this occurred but I had asked for a sign that this stuff has been working and I asked if I could see a picture of him and I together when we went to my aunts house. We were gonna go through pictures for my grandma but there was no way I would know if the pics of him and I were saved or not. I went to my aunts and forgot I asked the universe for that. Well long and behold I go to my cousins computer and there were the photos of him and I.  So I am very confused this incident occurred last Tuesday and I felt so good after imagined him with me etc and then Saturday night I found out he was going on a date. I tried not to be clingy but I ended up sending him a long text saying we deserve another chance but if someone else this girl or someone works I would be happy for him. (I also made up a lie that I am seeing someone earlier in the night after I learned of his date. Before I sent this text). Clearly I want him to be mine and I don't really feel bad about the text I didn't get a response but I don't feel bad. I want them to just be friends after this and realize that they are only friends. How do you get this to happen? I guess I had a thought or two about him dating her for months but I want to stop this. I'm confused because I don't know why this happened now just when I got a sign I was in the right direction. Help! I do know that I can manifest things but I am having a hard time getting myself to believe or change it. I think I manifested this girl because I was paranoid about her so that is  proof right there right? I also manifested this job interview yesterday from someone I have been applying for for months. It was while I was in good vibes. So I have some proof but for some reason I have resistance about getting this guy back. I think that my history and our lack of connection for so long hinders me getting him back. Is that true? I want this other girl to find happiness with someone else. Is this possible? Can you guys help me get past the blocks so I can manifest him back? Its like I know I can manifest I have seen it happen before, I even guess I did this. I know I have asked for help before I have not been the best person here but I am really having a difficult time. You would think I wouldn't because last year I kinda had the same problem and it got better he ended up breaking up with her while I was applying techniques and felt the best. But why doesnt this make me think it is possible? Why am I having a hard time with it. Need support prayers, and hope please please. I really want this to be the last time I need to do anything. Right now I feel like my story is completely hopeless. Even though I have manifested this stuff before I feel so hopeless  Please respond. thanks! 

Last edited by confused1077 (4/13/2016 10:13 am)