Love is not about fault-finding. It's not about blaming. It is about saying "I'm sorry, I lost my alignment for a moment there." Nobody else should be lumped with the task of keeping you happy. That is between you and you. You have a choice every moment of every day to turn your thoughts to love. In your choosing, you are creating your future. Hold NOBODY to ransom- it is your focus that defines your reality. If you are angry, understand that you created the situation. If you are sad, recognise that you brought it about yourself.. because you DID.

Love is not demanding. It is not controlling. It's not "where are you, I need you!" It should be "I am here, steady in my alignment and I see you in your perfection, as I see myself also."
You are brilliant beyond words, and you are worthy of absolutely EVERYTHING your heart desires. But you cannot focus upon unwanted things and expect your outer world to reflect magic. You have to CREATE the magic. You have to stand proud in your beauty and strength. You have to BE the rock. Love is the ability to emanate grace. To know your worth, respect yourself, and command that from others.

Love is non-judgemental. It is not criticism. It is far, far beyond what most are capable of comprehending. Love is UNCONDITIONAL. It is saying "I understand you. You are beautiful just the way you are. In your alignment you are perfect." Don't struggle to coerce others into behaving the way you NEED them to be. Why pollute your glorious energy? Don't attack others, for EVERYBODY is right. Their opinion is THEIR reality, and your resistance against them only highlights your own insecurities. Don't push against others. See them as you know they have the POTENTIAL to be. Have you ever held company with another who believes in you? Who looks up to you and can SEE you as you WISH you truly were? Be that vessel of love for others. Hold a mirror to them and show them their beauty. They will become what you perceive them to be.

Love is not wishing others to be different than what they are. It is being grateful that they simply ARE. That they even EXIST in your world should be enough. Focus there. Not on shortcomings and problems. What if, just WHAT IF you had the clarity of vision to see only the good in everyone you met? What if you could trust that kindness exists.. And that love truly conquers all?

I'm sure you all know Corinthians 13..
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."

Whether you are religious or not- I am positive those words resonate deeply within you. That's because they are the TRUTH. They are the basis of all religious scriptures, the basis of LOA teachings, the basis of what every master of every discipline has ever encouraged.. and the basis of MY life as I know it to be.

Live this way. I say this not as a fanciful activity you could pursue in your downtime. I encourage you ALL to LIVE in this way. I challenge you to see EVERYBODY through the eyes of love. And I promise you that when you do, you will understand the meaning of unconditional. You will feel it. And your life will change forever.