It's not Tinder that's the problem. It's fear and insecurity. Tinder will always be there. So will Facebook and Instagram and dating.com.. And not only that, but aside from social media platforms, there will ALWAYS be friends and strangers and co-workers and a million other potential partners for your lover! Your focus should be on YOU, and how incredible you are. When you have addressed your underlying fears, everything that worries you will melt away. When you can stand there proudly and know your own worth, your struggles will simply cease to exist, and your focus will instead shift to making your dreams come true.

TheGiver wrote:

Cherished wrote:

It's not Tinder that's the problem. It's fear and insecurity. Tinder will always be there. So will Facebook and Instagram and dating.com.. And not only that, but aside from social media platforms, there will ALWAYS be friends and strangers and co-workers and a million other potential partners for your lover! Your focus should be on YOU, and how incredible you are. When you have addressed your underlying fears, everything that worries you will melt away. When you can stand there proudly and know your own worth, your struggles will simply cease to exist, and your focus will instead shift to making your dreams come true.

Exactly!

Thank you Lar019/thegiver/cherished

The most important thing now I would give priority to is get best in my alignment that was such a great feeling. Last 2 days as been a discord and it feels really uncomfortable. Whilst I think it's a Great idea to forget this whole episode. I just need to chill out. Any ideas how I can change my story to work in my favour? Visulization is damn hard for me. Any suggestions will be so helpful at this moment whilst I also give thanks for the man who I love him for.
Thank you everyone
Xx