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I posted this in the Lanie section, but would like insight so I'm trying in a more general section of the forum, maybe people will see it more.π
I have had Lanie's book for about 2 months now. I have tried her method on various people, but have yet to see any result on anybody that I have tried it on. Is there something that I could be doing wrong? I'm doing it exactly as she says, but I do have trouble keeping visualization going. I can see the person initially, but then I lose the visualization quickly. I keep "talking" to them anyway though. Is it my lack of steady visualization that is preventing me from seeing any results or could it be something else??
Another question that I have is that I see a lot of people discussing how they can "feel" their persons energy. I absolutely know what this feels like bc I felt it with an ex of mine from a few years ago. I strongly felt him like he was energetically physically attached to me for about 2 months after we broke up. With my recent ex, I don't feel a thing energetically from him, like I don't feel his presence at all like I did my other ex, and I think about him at least 50% of the day so I do wish I felt something from him bc at least I could assume I'm on his mind at some point also. I don't feel like I'm connecting to him. Does that definitely mean we no longer have any energetic connection & he never thinks of me, or could he actually be blocking me from reaching him since he's with someone else now?
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I have had success in the past with Lanies technique, I don't visualise all that well, but I do intend to connect with him before I start..... The most important thing is the intense emotions that you feel during the visualisation, I really feel it in my heart area, it feels so good! You feel so high afterwards !!! I'm in the process of attracting someone to me at the moment, I have been doing the technique for a while but I have no doubt that he's feeling what I'm feeling ( how can he not ) when it's that intense! This is so important..... Believe π
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The only reason you don't get results is if you are doubting more than you are believing. So you need to control your thoughts more towards the believing end of the scale.
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Thank you Wooie! It's just that I don't feel like I'm able to get any connection from him..I don't feel anything, it feels blocked in a way, but I don't know if I'm making that up myself. All I know is that with my previous ex I felt his energy, it was so intense & I KNEW it was coming from him. I don't feel any energy from the one I'm trying to attract back now, no inkling that he's thinking about me or has any care. So that discourages me & when I feel like I can't connect I stop trying & give up, but I really do wanna be able to try it to see if it really does work!!
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Cherished wrote:
The only reason you don't get results is if you are doubting more than you are believing. So you need to control your thoughts more towards the believing end of the scale.
Very true!!! But what about the fact that I don't feel his energy at all? That's what getting to me the most bc I KNOW what it feels like since I felt it with someone else..it really makes me believe that he never thinks about me and has cut all connection to me.
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LaughBella14 wrote:
Thank you Wooie! It's just that I don't feel like I'm able to get any connection from him..I don't feel anything, it feels blocked in a way, but I don't know if I'm making that up myself. All I know is that with my previous ex I felt his energy, it was so intense & I KNEW it was coming from him. I don't feel any energy from the one I'm trying to attract back now, no inkling that he's thinking about me or has any care. So that discourages me & when I feel like I can't connect I stop trying & give up, but I really do wanna be able to try it to see if it really does work!!
Just keep doing the technique. What helps me is that I always assume it is working, and that it reaches my love even if I feel like it wasnt a powerful session of visualizing and feeling, just the fact that I thought about it in my mind, and that the universe knows I am doing it helps assure me that it was sent to my love. Change your thoughts from thinking he isnt thinking of you or cares about you to ASSUMING he does indeed care nd thinnks about you! Thats what helps me even when I am doubting I always assume my love misses me and thinks of me. I say it to myself and eventually I started to really believe that she does.
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You're so right, what I tend to do if I'm not really feeling it beforehand is listening to a song that fills my heart up with love..... Music is so uplifting, raises you're vibration and then I get the urge to reach out to him... Hope this helps !
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Thanks guys! I'll try your suggestions. Maybe with my other ex it worked because I probably believed in it more then & plus he stayed single. But I would feel his energy 24/7, not just during a RS type session. I've never really done RS, but more just trying to talk to the person in my mind. With the guy I'm trying to attract back, I don't feel his energy ever, whether I'm trying Lanies method, any other method, or just doing nothing. I wish I could feel that cuz when I felt it from my other ex I knew he was thinking about me!! And on top of it I can't reach out to the guy I'm trying to attract back, because he has a new girlfriend and has since we broke up two months ago. So reaching out isn't an option, he needs to be the one to do it first!
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My guy is seeing someone else too, you just don't put any energy into that.... I know it's hard but if you really believe he is the man for you then keep doing the technique, like Lanie said he will think of you and only you if you keep doing it ! Know it !!!
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I think my biggest resistance in anything having to do with him, is the fact that he left me for another girl. I cannot stop focusing on the fact that she has him. I know that that's my problem exactly, but I don't know how to feel as if she doesn't exist, especially being that he proposed to her two weeks ago, which still astounds me as it's only been 2 months since me and him were seeing each other, & he was gonna propose to me. I know I've gotta change this story..but I hate that I don't know how to do it easily!!!!
I also think that's why I've put the idea into my head that he can't possibly still be thinking about me or any thing that goes along with that bc proposing to someone else is a big deal!!!