I joined this forum in November and I was honestly a mess lol, I'm so proud of the progress I've made    I obviously still want my love back.   But I don't obsess about it anymore.    I think I may still have some resistance left, because at times.  I do miss her and sometimes think about the past, but I notice that is getting less and less.        In terms of "thinking as if". And visualizations/RS.   I honestly don't really do that as much.    I'm more of the "live life happy and forget about it" type of person.      But maybe when I'm even more happier than I am now.   I'll try to do RS and all that, I just don't want to become attached, so instead I take the focus off of her and put it on me




Another thing, I've met two people(we exchanged numbers and text sometimes).  But we don't talk as much as I'd want,  I want to get to know both of them more   But for whatever reason.  We don't really talk much.       But I know I can change that.   I just need to take my focus off of it and basically let the universe manifest it for me