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Re: I just don't get it
You need new affirmatuons then. About YOU. What are you trying to affirm that you immediately see as lies? Affirming should be about you and your worth.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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I do things that people have suggested, I say things like
I am with him
I am so blessed to have him in my life
I always get what I want
My relationship with him is getting better and better
The universe has to bring it to me because I asked for it
Or
I am so in love with him as is he in love with me
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Ok, but what about YOU? All of that is about him. There also needs to be some focus on you, and feeling better within yourself.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- iinikkii
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Yah, I just don't know what to affirm for myself either.. However silly that sounds. He is home for me, and I just want to go home.
And I know loa isn't a switch I know it's real and is active all the time. I'm just trying to get it to work for me and it's tiring to try and try and pretend, and imagine, and not see any movement. I don't want to wallow in the space I'm currently in. I just get aggravated, so then I go for a walk and try to start over.. And it's just like you said it's a cycle.
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Like when I'm imagining or visualizing.. I don't feel any emotions like everyone else.
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You have to begin to make this more about YOU. When you talked about affirming for yourself, it was all still about him! What is it that you love about yourself?
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- iinikkii
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I just thought we were supposed to affirm what we want.. I don't know what I love about myself, ever since I made the biggest mistake of my life and screwing up things I haven't loved myself very much at all
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So that is your biggest problem. And until you can address that, you won't be able to attract and keep the relationship you are wanting.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Craigd88
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Oh please there is so much to love about YOU! Are you kidding me Nikkii? First of all lets start with your name. Its badass. I like it. I bet you are an awesome individual too. What are some things you are good at? Lets start by being appreciative of those! Lets get into gratitude mode then we can start affirming ok?
Surely there are things you are grateful and thankful for right? How about having awesome people on this forum who are on your team in helping you achieve your desires?
I bet you are smart, pretty, wise, confident, secure, loving, graceful, thankful, peaceful, etc. Affirm those things about yourself. Baby steps. We are here to help you move up the scale! Lets go girl!
Thoughts become things.
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I guess I don't know how to love myself.. I try
I mean I've been trying to take care of my looks, and fix my hair, went to get my nails done, did a little shopping.. Things that I stopped doing a long time ago. Been going for walks, listening to positive messages.. I really don't know what else I am to do
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