big_blue wrote:

Because you still have doubt. It shows in this very post. Doubt creates resistance. Have you read any stories on thesecret.com? Those are always uplifting. Sometimes there are stories of people who get back together YEARS after they initially ended things. Am I saying that's going to happen to you? No. But what I am saying is continue to trust the universe and continue to live your life by being the best you can be.

I acknowledge that there is still doubt, and I try to talk myself down by saying things like

"I didn't know then what I know now, so now I can expect things to begin to change"
Or
"Just because I can't see it doesn't mean it's not happening"

I mean, doesn't he get to create his reality too?? If he's creating his reality without me then how do I create my reality with him??

Cherished.. Do you think you could shed some light on why Abe told that girl that the guy she wants isn't who the universe wants her to have?

She has a very limited perspective. As do you. As do I. From an unconditional, universal perspective, the universe knows absolutely everything about her and everything about him.  And what she TRULY TRULY desires is not within that guy.And her resistance about him is too much, thus keeping her apart anyway.