The first week it was really hard because I feared so many things. But By the second week I focused on myself by going for jogs, walks, movies by myself. I began to feel liberated and stronger. Only to be crushed once I realized I had been blocked. One thing that I actually feared was loosing him completely and so it seems.

VeronicaAdmin wrote:

Sorry to hear you are having a hard time.  I think the important thing to remember is that the 25 day challenge is a way of life.  Things may change within 25 days, but it may take longer.  Every situation is different.  During this time, you don't even think of things like being blocked because you imagine you are already communicating and together again :-) So, you never check to see if you are still blocked, because in your mind - it's already been fixed.  You HAVE to let him reach out first.  You can't do the challenge and then check to see if it worked.  You have to let go as if it's just working, and let the Universe bring the reconciliation.  This is why you never cry - because you act as the best part of you :-) This is who he will be attracted to.  I hope this advice helped you, and can help others too.


I think this is good advice, but do any of the administrators have fulfilled success stories?

I ask because you guys are so super positive, and i think for new people like us we only see doubt and fear takes over. For me personally, i am blocked as well, but we seem to get along in person if we see each other since we have a kid. But just like mariposaoo, I get sad too because youre realizing that this may possibly be IT, OVER, DONE!

I sometimes feel so alone, i wanna date someone else, just too let go or just not be lonely, but then I got to your forum and post and it helps, I script and it helps. Not many administrators are on as often, and i WISH this place had a chat feature, but it be noce to have a place to read you guys stories. I have read yours in remote seduction, but i don;t wanna do just that, I want that ring, that house, raising our kid you know...

Veronica xxoo

SydneysMommy wrote:

VeronicaAdmin wrote:

Sorry to hear you are having a hard time.  I think the important thing to remember is that the 25 day challenge is a way of life.  Things may change within 25 days, but it may take longer.  Every situation is different.  During this time, you don't even think of things like being blocked because you imagine you are already communicating and together again :-) So, you never check to see if you are still blocked, because in your mind - it's already been fixed.  You HAVE to let him reach out first.  You can't do the challenge and then check to see if it worked.  You have to let go as if it's just working, and let the Universe bring the reconciliation.  This is why you never cry - because you act as the best part of you :-) This is who he will be attracted to.  I hope this advice helped you, and can help others too.


I think this is good advice, but do any of the administrators have fulfilled success stories?

I ask because you guys are so super positive, and i think for new people like us we only see doubt and fear takes over. For me personally, i am blocked as well, but we seem to get along in person if we see each other since we have a kid. But just like mariposaoo, I get sad too because youre realizing that this may possibly be IT, OVER, DONE!

I sometimes feel so alone, i wanna date someone else, just too let go or just not be lonely, but then I got to your forum and post and it helps, I script and it helps. Not many administrators are on as often, and i WISH this place had a chat feature, but it be noce to have a place to read you guys stories. I have read yours in remote seduction, but i don;t wanna do just that, I want that ring, that house, raising our kid you know...

Veronica xxoo

 

 
Well I'm an administrator and I can tell you only of my experience. Every ex I have ever been with has contacted me out of the blue. ALL of them have apologised for anything and everything they ever did wrong lol. My high school sweetheart (not the guy I was attracting) contacted me to say I was the one that got away. He asked me if there was any chance for us but I was over him. I truly appreciated all he had to say though. The others began blowing up my messenger, begging to meet up with me. And the one I actually DID want contacted me saying he was absolutely crazy in love with me and couldn't live without me. I was the love of his life, his soulmate and he would wait forever for me.

It works. But it works because YOU come into alignment with YOU. You come to realise your self-worth, and you begin to see that yes indeed you create your own reality. The day it genuinely becomes more important for you to feel happy and whole, than scrambling to desperately attract a person- THAT is the day your love will appear back in your life. There is an element of trust and faith and you just have to go with it. The challenge is about finding your authentic self, really. And loving the person you are. When you can love yourself unconditionally, those people you have a connection with will also begin to love you unconditionally.

SydneysMommy wrote:

This happens to me as well but my kids father specifically said fat chance he would.

I am realizing that in order to change the game I need to be a game changer. So that is what I'll do.

Thank you so much for sharing. You and your ex back together

I can tell you LOA works

I attracted back my love. It's early days but we are in a good place in fact it feels like exactly when we first meet. You know that time when I had no fear or attachment to the outcome of the relationship.

The very simple principle to bathe yourself in  is you attract more of what you focus on. Embracing this principle allows you to harness you power because you see that you really are the game changer, when you change, everything around you changes.

Patience was the hardest factor for me, but what i do know is it that the universe is lining everything up for you as it needs to be. My guy and I have slightly complicated lives and whilst we were apart I made intentions for different situations to change and with no effort on my part these situations have changed.

It is so true when you align yourself with you, things will start speeding up and what you desire will appear. And more importantly when you get in alignment the intensity of your desire reduces not because you want it less but because the rediscovery of yourself changes your outlook.