Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » Feeling a little down..

iinikkii · 3/14/2016 1:07 pm

I don't know what it is, but today I just feel down. Over the weekend my sister had her baby, which was amazing and the baby is perfect. it was a good weekend, I had my focus on my sister and baby, I felt good, content, not worrying about my guy. Was just in the moment and appreciating the birth of my beautiful niece. Today tho.. I just somehow managed to not be flying so high. I miss my guy. I guess I just am not currently seeing any movement in my situation, and it starts to discourage me. I haven't even seen any signs like I thought I was previously. I'm not going to allow myself to wallow in the sadness I feel right now.. But it would just be nice if the universe would give me a little clue, or nudge or something to let me know that IT IS coming. Sometimes I wonder if when I'm feeling good, and focusing on other things and not so worried, I start to wonder if the universe will forget or has forgot about what I'm wanting... I love feeling good, I love when I'm not all hung up on worry.. But like I said, sometimes I just want a little reminder from the universe that it hasn't forgot and that things are changing.. Even tho I can't currently see the changes..

big_blue · 3/14/2016 1:25 pm

First off, CONGRATUALTIONS! How amazing it must be to be an aunt!!!

Okay, now let's focus on what you've said:

1. The universe knows what you desire as soon as you put the intent out. Regardless if you think about the desire that one time, or everyday. Some people receive their desires after the 'set and forget', while others use different techniques.

2. Don't look for signs, let them come to you.

3. I read in a book that saying 'I want' is negative, and therefore you're going to keep getting what you don't have. Start saying, 'I am', since you already have what you desire.

iinikkii · 3/14/2016 8:57 pm

Thank you big blue.. I am ever excited about my niece. The truly is a gift!!

And thank you for your reply. I do hunk abou him often, and here recently I've noticed that when I think of him it's been more on the loving feeling side than it has been out of the needy/depressed side. So I know that things are shifting within myself. Another thing, I do not try to look for signs.. But I have just noticed that I haven't noticed a sign in a few days.. But all is well, I know that I don't need the signs.

And lastly.. How should I insert "I am" compared to I want
Statements??

I want him vs I am eager to see him again??

iinikkii · 3/14/2016 9:00 pm

Oh and... I have missed this place the last couple days. I thoroughly enjoyed spending time at the hospital awaiting the arrival of baby Avelyn and socking her up after she got here.. However I really missed this place and couldn't wait to come back here

Cherished · 3/14/2016 9:15 pm

Hi beautiful, breathe! It's ok, we all do that from time to time. And it's probably the biggest rookie mistake - a few days of happy vibing and suddenly you become discouraged because you look around and see NOTHING! It's coming, promise! If you can keep your eyes in the road and your heart light, you WILL
see results. You have to go gangbusters on the faith part though. You really have to draw a line in the sand and say "from this moment, I'm nailing this manifesting business, and I WILL achieve my desires!" They are done! But every time you look around you slow the process. You have to learn to cultivate a happiness within yourself, separate from your love. You have to spend time doing things that feel GREAT. What do you like to do? You need to start teaching yourself how to manifest COOL stuff! Free tickets and meals and lovers swooning all over the place!!

big_blue · 3/14/2016 10:13 pm

iinikkii wrote:
I want him vs I am eager to see him again??

Saying 'I want' tells the universe that you are lacking something. If it was already yours, you wouldn't want it, right? You've got to trick your subconscious by telling it you already have it.

Maybe try something along the lines of, 'I am happy to be his' or 'I AM with him, we are happily back together'. Get excited knowing that you will be seeing him again. Get excited because darling, he's yours. You've told the universe you desire him, so it has to bring it to you.

I like what Cherished said about manifesting cool stuff. Think of thinks hat you have gotten that you've wanted-- maybe they didn't come the way you thought they would, or when you wanted it, but you still got it. It doesn't have to be something you really, really want either. Something I realized not too long ago was that I had to stop spending so much money and save some. Recently I found $10 on the ground, got a belated birthday card with $25 in it, and had my meals paid for all weekend by friends.

You trust the process, get excited that's he's coming back, and enjoy the ride (:

iinikkii · 3/18/2016 2:26 pm

Cherished.. I guess I get stuck between how to light hearted about it when I know emphatically that he is the one I want. I am definitely doing better than I was when I first joined this forum, way better really. But the desire is still there. Then sometimes I get fearful of my doubt/negative thoughts bc I it makes me think that if i have one shred of doubt ever then I've failed and it won't come.

im just feeling down today, and I know that's not helping rather it's delaying.

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