I'm confused by your second point, DID your guy propose to his girlfriend or you don't know? I ask bc I think you're trying to get at that Lanies book made you realize you might be putting the idea into his head...my guy proposed to his new gf not even 2 months of being together, so that's an interesting concept!!

For some reason the ONLY way I manage to stop thinking those bad thoughts right now is to go.. Ok so that happens.. So that turns out to be true... Now what.. Make peace with it as best you can, accept it may be a pathway to somewhere else. For some reason when I do that with scary situations it seems to take the wind out of them and I feel very 'neutral' for a while.

I think in terms of your job maybe keep trying to find ANY goodness you can out of the situation, think of the universe as your employer and they're just getting the new job all set up, it's in the bag and will be tangible soon.

The unexpected comes to you with ease and in miraculous ways!

It's good lanie's book helped! Sometimes you think you 'get' it then you find something new which helps you really feel it and experience it in a new way! X

I think definitely negativity will hinder it, but it doesn't matter what you're happy about as long as you feel good!

There's times when you will be doing something enjoyable, or feeling good totally unrelated to what you want to attract, then what you want will fall in your lap.

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