1 - TheGiver
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This is such a great forum filled with so much positivity. On a lot of LOA forums I've seen there is still a lot of rampant negativity, but here I really enjoy how much we all support one another. I have never once seen someone on here tear down someone else's desire. Alot of times on the other forums when you tell your situation people will often say that you need to give up, that it's hopeless, that that person treated you like **** so you should move on.
But here, regardless of if you're trying to attract back an ex who treated you like ****, a specific person you only went on a few dates with or a celebrity, we've all been so supportive, kind and encouraging of each other's desires. I think that's because we all really grasp the concept that everything in our lives we created, good or bad. Thus, we can create whatever we want in our futures.
I also think it's telling of how much positive energy lives on these forums that when negativity does arise, immediate action is taken. As negative as the Adam/Infinite situation was, look at what happened: people were banned, threads were posted smoothing things over and a new moderator/layout was put into place. On other LOA forums that person is just banned and everyone moves on. But here we did everything to eradicate the minimal amount of negativity that popped up in an otherwise positive place.
I think it's really cool to have a place like this where support, kindness and positivity outweighs fighting and disparagement and negativity.
I also just want to single out CraigD, aphrodite, angellynn,veggiepizza, Forgetyourevil, persephone and Sam--I've been following all your journeys since the beginning and have really been impressed with the amount of progress you've been making lately. I know there are others out there making progress, too, so don't think I haven't noticed. I just know that this journey can be hard at times, and it's always good to get some recognition for the progress you've been making. So rock on guys!
Just thought I'd spread the positivity around. Really looking forward to everyone's future successes!
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Aww we notice your positivity too! Rock on yourself TheGiver and keep giving 
But more generally: yes, I couldn't agree more, it's a really lovely forum with so many uplifting posts and everyone wanting to help each other...very supportive, warm, inviting. Thank you to all of you, especially to Veronica and Cherished. 💜
- rosetinted
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Hell yeah! This forum is the best and most positive place. For me when people say 'you can have anything with loa!' They have to truly mean it. Anytime someone would say oh you can have this this and this... Oh but not that relationship... It doesn't work with that... They're totally missing the point! And that's a shame.
If we create everything, everyone and every situation, and if you truly understand this universe then you have to believe everything is possible for everyone 
Thank you to all of you who've helped me on my low vibe days, it's all part of the journey. I'm grateful for all of you. Fab energy here
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This is essentially the first LOA forum I've been on besides Reddit's sub forum for LOA. This is the ONLY place where I have not seen anyone discourage the other due to what they want to manifest. I'm very happy to have stumbled upon this little community.
You all have been so supportive and knowledgable! I can't wait to read more success stories and even post mine!
"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
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TheGiver wrote:
Alot of times on the other forums when you tell your situation people will often say that you need to give up, that it's hopeless, that that person treated you like **** so you should move on.
I think it's important to remember that the people who do say that do it because they are trying to help you and are probably going by what has worked for them in their experiences. It doesn't mean they are negative, rather we interpret it to be negative because we're just not open to a larger picture. Sometimes, giving up is good advice, as well as letting go, detaching, and moving on. Why? Because it helps you find yourself again as well as your personal power. Another way of looking at it is that to "let go" shifts focus and releases resistance. And sometimes, playing Devil's Advocate helps you find a new perspective that frees you. My views on LoA may be different, perhaps dissenting, but without different opinions, ideas, and stories of what has worked for us, how can we learn from each other? But unlike a few members on other forums, we shouldn't let the dogma of a few become the fear of many, it's all about learning what works for us and then applying them. To share two quotes:
Funny enough, my namesake Theodore Roosevelt wasn't a big fan of Thomas Jefferson
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Alot of times on the other forums when you tell your situation people will often say that you need to give up, that it's hopeless, that that person treated you like **** so you should move on.
I think it's important to remember that the people who do say that do it because they are trying to help you and are probably going by what has worked for them in their experiences. It doesn't mean they are negative, rather we interpret it to be negative because we're just not open to a larger picture. Sometimes, giving up is good advice, as well as letting go, detaching, and moving on. Why? Because it helps you find yourself again as well as your personal power. Another way of looking at it is that to "let go" shifts focus and releases resistance. And sometimes, playing Devil's Advocate helps you find a new perspective that frees you. My views on LoA may be different, perhaps dissenting, but without different opinions, ideas, and stories of what has worked for us, how can we learn from each other? But unlike a few members on other forums, we shouldn't let the dogma of a few become the fear of many, it's all about learning what works for us and then applying them. To share two quotes:
Funny enough, my namesake Theodore Roosevelt wasn't a big fan of Thomas Jefferson
Suggesting the "let go" method is always great advice. I've been employing it recently and it's incredible the amount of power I regained. I also agree in this big picture method. But I do notice, at least in my own experience on other LOA forums, that a lot of times people will not just supply these suggestions, but they'll say it forcefully, along with very disparaging remarks. I'm not saying I don't like that they have different opinions, just that I don't always see the most polite way of presenting them. But everyone has a different perspective and sometimes we don't realize how we come across, or we seem negative when we're just trying to get our point across.
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But I do notice, at least in my own experience on other LOA forums, that a lot of times people will not just supply these suggestions, but they'll say it forcefully, along with very disparaging remarks.
Yes, we should try to get our point across without being cruel to people who don't deserve it. I'm kind of playing Devil's Advocate here: About "letting go", sometimes people will practice that advice as a means to attract their desire, but that's not "letting go" in the full sense since you're still trying (resistance). So sometimes, telling people who are down to give up or move on or let go in a very blunt way can help since it can shift them to give up that resistance their holding, and then the magic may happen. If I give them a glimpse of hope and say "if you let go, maybe they'll come", then they might stop focusing on the ex but they will still keep looking around for him/her coming around instead of just living or feeling from the end. They'll start thinking after a few weeks "Hey, I let go, where is my ex?" And then they might stay in the neediness for a very long time which doesn't help them. (This is kind of way I prefer to say "pursue the feelings of having what you want" as opposed to "let go".)
Anyway, more on "letting go" (detachment/surrender) from MoreToCome:
(specifically the epilogue)
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But I do notice, at least in my own experience on other LOA forums, that a lot of times people will not just supply these suggestions, but they'll say it forcefully, along with very disparaging remarks.
Yes, we should try to get our point across without being cruel to people who don't deserve it. I'm kind of playing Devil's Advocate here: About "letting go", sometimes people will practice that advice as a means to attract their desire, but that's not "letting go" in the full sense since you're still trying (resistance). So sometimes, telling people who are down to give up or move on or let go in a very blunt way can help since it can shift them to give up that resistance their holding, and then the magic may happen. If I give them a glimpse of hope and say "if you let go, maybe they'll come", then they might stop focusing on the ex but they will still keep looking around for him/her coming around instead of just living or feeling from the end. They'll start thinking after a few weeks "Hey, I let go, where is my ex?" And then they might stay in the neediness for a very long time which doesn't help them. (This is kind of way I prefer to say "pursue the feelings of having what you want" as opposed to "let go".)
Anyway, more on "letting go" (detachment/surrender) from MoreToCome:
(specifically the epilogue)
Agree 1,000% here. It can be very hard to "let go" just for you, because the idea of getting your desire is a persistent little bugger. In that regard, I can see what you're saying about the virtues of some of that "negativity".
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Thread Starter- rosetinted
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I can't count the amount of times I've let go and moved on from something then it's turned up at my door. Often literally... But yeah if I was saying I'm letting go so I can get this... Then it's not really letting go.
I think it's different for everyone, if it feels good and you can do it then go for it, if not then that's great too! It's all headed to the same destination just a different scenic route
But I learnt a long time ago when I was a teenager (I'm 28 now) that if you think you know it all... You don't know much at all. It happens with family a lot where I want to say noooo do it this way! But what's right for me is so wrong for someone else, and that's wonderful.
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