rosetinted wrote:

Sam wrote:

I had an ex who started dating someone else right after we broke up and two months later he came back to me crying, saying all she ever did was make him realize he wanted me. I took him back and he was madly in love with me for two years after that.

Thank you so much for telling me that. The fact it's so public (if it is anything at all) makes me feel humiliated as everyone will see it. But I trust in this process I must do or I wouldn't be here so I will persevere. As sick as it makes me feel xxx

Rosetinted you gotta remain strong. Listen to Veronica's videos. It doesn't matter if your love is with someone else. Think positively work on the best version of yourself like you are doing. You are beautiful and amazing own it and show the world. Good things are coming to you. It's your time to shine, you create your own destiny.

Last edited by DumpedinSept (2/20/2016 7:32 pm)

DumpedinSept wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

Sam wrote:

I had an ex who started dating someone else right after we broke up and two months later he came back to me crying, saying all she ever did was make him realize he wanted me. I took him back and he was madly in love with me for two years after that.

Thank you so much for telling me that. The fact it's so public (if it is anything at all) makes me feel humiliated as everyone will see it. But I trust in this process I must do or I wouldn't be here so I will persevere. As sick as it makes me feel xxx

Rosetinted you gotta remain strong. Listen to Veronica's videos. It doesn't matter if your love is with someone else. Think positively work on the best version of yourself like you are doing. You are beautiful and amazing own it and show the world. Good things are coming to you. It's your time to shine, you create your own destiny.

Thank you so much, that made me smile.   I almost feel numb to it which is so much better than had I seen this a while ago. I've manifested him back in the past, I remember thinking I don't care if he's been with someone else, because they're not me! He came back and it turned out he hadn't been with anyone at all...

Then this time when I try to do that (there was a crazy argument this time where he said awful things) I feel unable to do it in the same way.,

My friend said maybe you're doing this to yourself to make yourself stronger, whether they're together or not. She may be right. I'm creating it all anyway. (That autocorrected to fearing it all anyway how ironic lol)

rosetinted wrote:

confused1077 wrote:

I had my guy last year meet up at this time last year and told me he was dating someone else. He was talking about how amazing she is and stuff. I was devastated. I then really sunk into LOA and kept thinking about my end game. I also really focused on being more chill. I would move the thought of them together out of my mind. Within a couple of weeks they broke up. So it can be changed 

Yes! You're so right. When I'm more chill and don't care as intensely it will probably happen. That's amazing that you manifested that! Do you have any tips on how you moved that unwanted thought out? I'm trying to feel myself as someone who is so so secure nothing phases me...

I always say to people 'you've manifested this so you can make it go away if you want' I just never hear it for myself as easily.

Xxx

I manually told myself no . I literally said that when it came up. Then I would imagine being with him and holding hands etc.  Now I did lose site of LOA and we became friends with benefits and stuff I didnt get the relationship because i became needy again. He loves me he always said that but he switched on whether he wants to be with me but that WAS because of my vibes. I say was because I know he is going to be here with me. . I now have to literally tell myself NO when any negative thought come up now but I am in a much better position now. Sorry rambled lol but when a negative thought comes in say no and eventually they will become less and less. I m still working on it now 
 

rosetinted wrote:

confused1077 wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

Yes! You're so right. When I'm more chill and don't care as intensely it will probably happen. That's amazing that you manifested that! Do you have any tips on how you moved that unwanted thought out? I'm trying to feel myself as someone who is so so secure nothing phases me...

I always say to people 'you've manifested this so you can make it go away if you want' I just never hear it for myself as easily.

Xxx

I manually told myself no . I literally said that when it came up. Then I would imagine being with him and holding hands etc.  Now I did lose site of LOA and we became friends with benefits and stuff I didnt get the relationship because i became needy again. He loves me he always said that but he switched on whether he wants to be with me but that WAS because of my vibes. I say was because I know he is going to be here with me. . I now have to literally tell myself NO when any negative thought come up now but I am in a much better position now. Sorry rambled lol but when a negative thought comes in say no and eventually they will become less and less. I m still working on it now 
 

Thank you, you're wonderful X

no problem we are all in this together. Think of yourself as awesome. I actually say out loud that I am awesome. Obviously when i am alone. lol but i say it .lol