My life tends to be more female dominated: work wise and friend wise.  I love all of my co-workers and friends, but would like to meet more emotionally and physically available men. I'd like to find a man who is mutually interested in me and wants to be in a relationship with me as much as I want to be in a relationship with him. I am not sure where to start though, as I am an adult female in my late 30s.  It seems whenever I meet a man that I am romantically interested in,  it never seems to work out! At this point, I'd even be happy with a few guys friends!  So how do I use LOA to attract a man perfect for me?  (I am not really interested in online dating right now, because of how time consuming it is behind a computer.  I'm on the computer a lot as it is for work and social media.  I want to get out of the house!)

Also, will this hurt my chances of reconnecting with the specific man I'd like to reattract back into my life?  Or should I just forget about this guy and move on?