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New to LOA and want my ex back
Hello everyone, I am new to the LOA and stumbled here via Veronica's youtube videos. I bought her ebook on Kindle and have been reading it.
I was with my love for 3 years and just 2 months ago she decided to end the relationship. She has since met someone else whom she told me she wants to be with. This really does hurt.
I want her back in my life and I want her to love/desire only me. I have been using the techniques taught here and various other places. I havent really seen any results however. Many LOA boards say you CANNOT attract back an ex or a specific person due to their free will. I am really hung up on this. What if my ex desires this other man and that is her will? Will LOA still work to get her to want me again? I watched Veronica's free will video but I am still confused.
Any comments are welcome. Thanks! 
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Re: New to LOA and want my ex back
Two great videos I watched on this today:
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Re: New to LOA and want my ex back
Sam wrote:
Anyone who claims you can't get an ex back by using the LOA must be really full of themselves to think their opinion overrides a universal law. The truth is, the law never stops working and we're constantly influencing the people around us, and being influenced by them. You attracted this person the first time around and that wasn't considered against their free will, was it? The only difference here is that you're attracting them deliberately. In my opinion, most people who say you can't attract an ex only say it because it violates their moral code. But the law never stops so you can never stop attracting, which means those people are influencing others as well, so they clearly don't fully understand the law and how it works.
You have this spot on!
"The past, the present, and the future are really one: They are today" Harriet Beecher Stowe"
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And what moral code would this exactly violate?
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And what moral code would this exactly violate?
The misassumption that we're controlling/manipulating another person. Which isn't true!!!
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Re: New to LOA and want my ex back
Anyone who claims you can't get an ex back by using the LOA must be really full of themselves to think their opinion overrides a universal law. The truth is, the law never stops working and we're constantly influencing the people around us, and being influenced by them. You attracted this person the first time around and that wasn't considered against their free will, was it? The only difference here is that you're attracting them deliberately. In my opinion, most people who say you can't attract an ex only say it because it violates their moral code. But the law never stops so you can never stop attracting, which means those people are influencing others as well, so they clearly don't fully understand the law and how it works.
Well said
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Ok so let me get this straight. Here is what I am currently doing:
1. Visualize her being with me, loving me, and dating me.
2. Being thankful that it is a reality despite not seeing anything in the physical.
3. Maintain good feelings, enjoy myself and go about my daily routine.
Is this pretty much how you manifest them back? I would also LOVE to get her to text me or message me saying that shes sorry and wants me back.
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To anyone who says you're violating someone's will by using LOA to attract them back, let me ask you, were you violating their will when you first attracted them? I think not! Might as well knowingly attract what you want
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Ok so let me get this straight. Here is what I am currently doing:
1. Visualize her being with me, loving me, and dating me.
2. Being thankful that it is a reality despite not seeing anything in the physical.
3. Maintain good feelings, enjoy myself and go about my daily routine.
Is this pretty much how you manifest them back? I would also LOVE to get her to text me or message me saying that shes sorry and wants me back.All good except I'd personally cut that last bit out. Wanting an apology is your ego talking and is not unconditional love. You have to let go of the past and start fresh.
Yeah I agree with that too. But wouldn't knowingly attracting her away from her new guy be unloving as well?
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All good except I'd personally cut that last bit out. Wanting an apology is your ego talking and is not unconditional love. You have to let go of the past and start fresh.
Yeah I agree with that too. But wouldn't knowingly attracting her away from her new guy be unloving as well?
No, not at all! Being apart from her and letting her live her life is the perfect time for you to learn how to love her unconditionally. This isn't about stealing her away or ruining their relationship. The only reason you're apart now is because you stopped being a vibrational match. This is about learning to love yourself and her, and taming your vibration, and in turn she will be attracted to you again. She'll make the decision to come back to you and it will be because you've become a better match to her than him. And you want what's best for her right?
Yes I do want what is best for her and I want to be what is best for her. I know I can love her more than the new guy (I think he's a rebound anyway).
How can I become a better match for her?
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