Love5278 wrote:

How can I change that ? & stop dwelling on it ? And not worry about it , it's just something that really bothers me because I'm not seeing any progress happening and I never see her and it just feels Impodsible right now and I'm trying to tell myself it is possible .. I just always see Loa working when someone recently have broken up with a significant after a couple of months not years

 
Here, let's do it with this paragraph above-

Slightly better statement:

It seems that other people can change their thinking. There must be a way I can stop dwelling on this. I don't see her around, but other people make good progress attracting their lovers, so there must be a way. I need to remind myself that other people totally nail this. So it stands to reason that I can too! I've  seen it working myself, and people get back together ALL THE TIME, in really fast timeframes. I'm motivated to do it too. I know I must be able to.

See? That's still basically the same content but with a positive slant. You're no longer reinforcing all the negative talk.

Here's your ultimate story-
Omg I've done it! I knew emphatically that there was a way to control my mind and manifest my dreams! And it happened so quickly it's quite unbelievable! Now that LOA has been working perfectly for me the whole time, I laugh at myself for ever believing it was such a challenge. Getting back in contact with my girl was simply a matter of mastering my mind, and filling myself with love and positivity.. I'm so grateful, and so excited to see what the future will bring me.. Well, I already KNOW, because I'm busy manifesting my perfect life! 😊

Now how does that FEEL?

Ahhhh, it feels wonderful. It feels easy. It feels amazing to have conquered my fears and doubting. I feel so liberated knowing that I'm the creator of my experiences- that I have the power to focus on my emotions and change them at will. There is SUCH freedom and grace and perfection  in living this way. I love knowing that I can be, and do and have absolutely ANYTHING that I set my mind to. And I am blissfully anticipating the future with the love of my life. I'm eager to continue on my delicious new path!!

Wow that felt so amazing reading what you wrote ! It made me feel like it happened already and I have her back , just reading that got me to believe like it can and will happen I need to rewrite my story and after I do that shook I read it everyday to ensure my subconscious believes it ? I have letters from my girl and pictures when we were together but I took them down should I bring the pictures back up and look at them daily to convince myself it's happening now ? And maybe bring out the letters ? Or should I throw them away ?.,. I really appreciate all your help .. I really want to rewrite my story so that I can never bring up the two years ever again ( I'm sorry to be a bother but could you help me with that ) I completly understand if you can't

Thank you so much ! I want to be able to rewrite my story about my friends and my love in a way that it makes me believe all my relationships are fixed ... And get myself stuck on the positive end of the spectrum and never going back to feeling down and thinking about the past and thinking about time

Love5278 wrote:

I have been feeling so amazing and positive lately .. I feel like my desire to be with my love and friends are being fixed behind the scenes right now I'm so happy and thankful for everyone and everything .. I even bought my camera to start my blog .. And in the morning I swear that my girlfriend was lying right next to me and at night when I'm going to sleep I lay on my side and I can feel my love cuddling with me from behind .. I feel great I am so happy my desire is on its way

 
This is wonderful to read, I'm so happy you're feeling much more positivity! 😘

Keep at it, it gets easier to shift your vibration. When you realise you can control your thoughts and therefore emotions, you really do become unstoppable!

My new analogy for my life is this: I like to imagine I'm on my bus. It's awesome, and it's going to all the destinations I've ever wanted. And there are stops all along the way, where u can get off and look around, collect new and wonderful things, then get back on the bus. In my bus, I'm in my vortex. Everything is wonderful. I'm on the way to my man, to extraordinary health and wealth and happiness!

Now, when I first started driving my bus, and was learning to master it I was crap at it. I crashed it a bit, dinged it and was terrible at parking it. As I practiced though, I got better at keeping my bus on the road! Every now and again I want to get off and stretch, and refuel or meditate or sleep.. But then I'm back on my bus joyfully immersing myself in the ever changing scenery around me! I KNOW the bus is going to pick up my guy, my GPS says so! So I need only stay ON THE BUS and enjoy the ride! And if I crash it, that's fine! We can always get it fixed just like new! The important thing is to stay on the bus, and enjoy every moment of the journey. And trust that you WILL reach your destination. And it will be incredible!