So cry. Then be confident. Go on the date just for fun. And if I don't pay attention to any possible negative outcomes there won't be any? Focus on getting invites to things from mutual friends and being awesome. Maybe think he will miss me when it goes awhile that he hasn't heard from me now I'm just rambling lol. I mean he got mad at me before for getting everyone in on our business and I have stopped doing that with mutual friends. I hope he can do the same for me now . I mean he told everyone before we were sleeping together. I'm just hoping now he can do this favor and follow his own rule. At least the saids we are cool. But in regards to anymore negative things do not pay attention to anymore negative out comes and they won't happen?

Sam wrote:

You're doing this backwards. You're wanting to see a quick result so that you can feel better. By now you know that's not how it works. Feel better FIRST and the results will come. You gotta take care of yourself, dear. Seriously.

I've been where you are. It's written all over this forum. In fact, I had a meltdown two days ago! But the thing is, I've learned how to get back up on my horse faster! It takes practice and truthfully, I got so miserable over my guy that I reached a point where he didn't even matter anymore, all I wanted was to feel better! And now that feeling better has become my priority, I can 100% honestly say that I'm the happiest I've ever been. And HE'S NOT HERE YET. Amazing!

I really agree with Sam!! and yes there will be some setbacks and limiting beliefs and fears that pop up but it is good to be AWARE of them now it is apart of the process anyways, because it eventually brings you closer to your desire, but don't wallow and feel bad forever! You have to get back to YOU! Just think of it this way once you become a vibrational match to your desire and start feeling good for yourself and acting as if your lover is already with you, it will make your desire come even faster!! Just test yourself and see how far you go on this you are strong, and a powerful creator you just have to realize it. 
1. I think you should first determine what it is that is holding YOU back from getting your love back, because you are standing in your own way right now love. Really focus on changing your thoughts and being aware of your fears so they can be released
2. Start to feel good about yourself you deserve to feel good for yourself and remember you cant just get to where you want to be without not first being present in the now and grateful and happy HERE and NOW
3. Once you start to find yourself again and feel better then you can start focusing on your new relationship with your lover, and acting as if and once you actually FEEL and BELIEVE it to be real you wont care if it shows up or not (Even though it will) but you wont care simply because you believe and feel it to be real which will make it pop up in your physical reality. Just try to test yourself and see how really powerful you are I mean you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain with LOA but you must BELIEVE you can have your lover back, TRUST the universe and have FAITH and just start living now. You dont need patience because you arent waiting your lover is already there just you have to be a vibrational match for your desire in order for it to show up in the physical reality. I always tell myself this with my love "She is here, she has always been here with me, she has never left" You just have to focus on you right now and be happy and feel good now. You wont be happy over there unless you are happy here first

I  honestly dont know HOW or When my love will come back, but I just know and ahve faith and trust the universe , and I know I dont haveanything to lose so why not try it and create whatever I want to happen. Also I am more aware so I think it is good to see how you ended up where you are now like for example I have recently just started to realize certain things I have indeed attracted and manifested into my life WITHOUT even knowing it. So that also helps me to know that LOA is real and you do create everything that happens. Be grateful and happy that you are single now EMBRACE it and be GRATEFUL that you guys had to break up because it has brought you to knowing LOA which will change your life and bring you on a whole new journey and to be in a NEW relationship with your lover so that way your relationship is better than what it use to be. I am grateful for all the experiences in my life good or bad actually not bad just cerati things I didnt want to happen but something good has came from all of it in order for me to be better. I hope this makes sense

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confused1077 wrote:

I'm also going to remind myself of the things I have manifested before.

Yes it helps to remind you of all your success and how far you have came )

I really dont want to go on this date today

His birthday is next week he said we are good so i should get an invite to any event happening