Hello friend!

Let's stop those tears right there and start out with a smile, even if you have to force it to begin with.

My advice to you, having read your story, is that you take a little time out to focus on yourself and forget about this whole ordeal. Even a couple days can help. You seem to have become a little obsessive about it and perhaps you should take it as a cue to play it more coolly from now on with other people. You will know inside that you will get her back, so why tell other people about it if it's causing trouble? They'll all see soon enough, but for now the most important thing is that you realign your vibrations and ground your energy. Focusing on them too much from that place of ungroundedness and desparation can cause more trouble than good. 

Try and do some deep meditations to become whole with yourself again, then you can return to your practice from a new point of view, and a much more powerful place.

Wishing you all the best.

she said this is all **** and being too optimistic could be the light of train coming from the other side and not the way out of cave...

and she said this is last time she is talking..her way of talking was too loud and rude...and that she dosent even wants to say friends....relationship later on...not even friendship..she says i shouldnt exist in her life...

why is she so negative even when i have never cheated on her and i m staying soo positive from days...being good and nice to everyone....

yaar bhai ek baat bolta hu.....LOA nahi samjhega usse !!! tu filhal sab ignore kar aur LOA use kar....khud pe concentrate kar...meditate kar....bakiyo ke sath mat share kar kuch bhi.... warna wo log hasenge !!! Jab woh wapas ayegi tab jo bolna hai bol....filhal tu sabko yehi bol ki tu move on kar raha hai....
 

Ok. You need to walk away for a while. LOA is not something you really tell people about usually. To be honest, you all know I practice LOA, but in my "world" of friends and colleagues and family.. NOBODY knows. What they DO "KNOW" is that in the happiest, luckiest, most charismatic person they have ever met. And when things keep going my way, they shake their heads and say "Geez,  why wasn't I born with all that luck?!" And I nod and smile and say I really dont know!

From your Love's perspective she is probably angry thinking that you will use LOA to try and manipulate her.  And being honest,  at the moment that's what you are trying to do.  And you are failing because LOA doesn't work this way. 

The first thing as I said before,  is to cut contact with her AND your friends. Just for a while.  You have to stop making it about her.  The reason she's gone is because you have no respect for yourself. That needs to change. And you change it by putting her aside for now and focussing on what is good about you. And what is good about life. You're not actually staying positive for days, at least not that I can see. You're full of fear and desperate to cling to her. The energy is very clear and no amount of fake smiling will fix it. You need to take a few breaths, take a nap if you must, and then come back ready to let her go for now. Not forever. Just for now. Because you have this amazing chance to be the very best person you could possibly be! So let's start to work on that first, and on romance later, yes?

Last edited by Cherished (2/07/2016 4:18 pm)

Noooooo! Talk to us instead.