Sounds like a great idea and much fun, I'm in! Although I, too, find the "deadline" deal creates resistance. Whenever I have successfully manifested back ex's in the past, it has always been when I was happy with or without on a consistent basis (2 weeks or more) and had absolutely no expectations for deadlines. Those times it happened the quickest!

Ok, no deadline for the relationship to be back on but to have some sort of improvement, is everyone in an agreement for that

so whats the work to be done on this challenge??

We start by giving each other support but also methods that have worked... My method was, daily I'd write how madly in love with one another we ARE, I'd purposely tell ppl about my missus and when I got chatted up, I'd tell ppl, I had a girlfriend. When I was on a night out I'd tell myself, I have a girlfriend. And try to constantly visualize