If you're ready to ok, if dating makes you feel good, go for it.

daisy909 wrote:

I am in a bit of a confused place when it comes to dating right now. I know I will get back with my ex so dating while I carry this believe around makes me a bit uncomfortable. I have had a couple guys ask me out on dates but I feel as if I am betraying my partner. Although we are not together at the moment I am not sure on how I should feel or if it's okay. Any suggestions or comments?

For some people dating helps in letting go but only when you feel good doing so or actually are interested in someone else so that you can let go but if you're not feeling good then it won't help. Whatever you do, you should feel good. If you're thinking you're betraying him by dating others, it will only make you feel sad and you will attract more sadness. It's not necessary to date someone else, you can still make you feel better by doing other things which you actually enjoy and it will attract more good things in your way.

NAC1701 wrote:

I am going to go ahead and disagree here.  If you wish to manifest your ex back, dating will redirect your thought and energies away from that main goal.  As we all learn more about LOA, we know that thoughts create realities and what we focus upon, happens.  So if one's main goal is trying to get the ex back, dating another person will lead to thoughts and focus upon that new person, thus helping something else other than the ex, manifest.  You might well manifest a new relationship with that person instead in this "wait" period.  So, as Veronica taught us all.....we should be clear what we actually want to manifest.  Hope my two cents makes sense. Be well.

I think most of the people here are focusing on their ex all day every day, but they have doubts that block the manifestation. They can focus on the ex for years and nothing will happen. But if you shift your focus to another person/thing/whatever you stop resisting your desire. All the thought frequencies ever emitted exist. The universe does not forget about a wish/frequency. And if you are happy when you are dating you draw everything you want to you with lightspeed.
Yes, we should be clear. I think having a loving relationship with an ex or someone better is very clear. Our human mind thinks it is a contradiction if we date someone else but it isn't. The universe don't know anyting about "we are only allowed to have one person". The universe doesn't judge that. Dating is only a contradiction to your wish if you believe it is. I don't recommened breaking people's hearts here or having multiple relationships at once. Being honest with the other person is important, but what I've learned with my past manifestations is that the universe doesn't see contradictions where I see contradictions.
I heard many stories of people who found someone else and the ex came back 2 weeks later after not hearing from him for months. So if it feels right and good, go for it.
 

well i dont know...
i went on a couple of dates,,,
but it just didnt feel right.. so i stopped...
i guess personally i need time to work on myself...
dating or not is ones personal preference i guess!!!!