I think you're doing well because she is responding to you but at the same time you're pushing it, it seems. You should give her time to get normal and initiate. It doesn't mean you ignore her but let her miss you. Keep your vibes up and stick with your imagination, she definitely can feel it ( as you mentioned she responded and unblocked you) so nothing to worry about it but if you will keep forcing things, it can push her away. Feel her presence in your mind and know she is picking up on your thoughts you're sending to her.

=i think you're doing well because she is responding to you but at the same time you're pushing it, it seems. You should give her time to get normal and initiate. It doesn't mean you ignore her but let her miss you. Keep your vibes up and stick with your imagination, she definitely can feel it ( as you mentioned she responded and unblocked you) so nothing to worry about it but if you will keep forcing things, it can push her away. Feel her presence in your mind and know she is picking up on your thoughts you're sending to her.

well i am trying my level best to be positive and most important of all..i had to go to the alumni meet and she is still a college student..i know i wss in no contact phase but then i knew i will meet her..and veronica says that in case i see hrr..i need to be good to her..now i have had pictures with her..and now the meet is over...so now  what should i do...wait for her to contact me.?and more of visualization and rs is going to create morr situations like this..and improvise things?


 

Shy wrote:

The main purpose of visualisation is to see your desire already fulfilled which means you vividly see the end result that you will experience after having your desire. If you're analysing it too much or feeling lack or waiting that means you haven't realized its fulfillment yet. When you imagine as it has fulfilled, you no longer seek evidences outside. You no longer feel need to do anything but you do things when you feel inspired to do. If you see her again or she initiates, start with casual talks and make her comfortable but don't try to force things. You will automatically bring your desired reality when you feel it as real as you see your outside world...just go with flow.

well earlier .she and her friends and me and my frjends used to go on outings and other places .altgh i havent asked her..should i ask her friends to go on outings and shopping and invite her as well for the same..or i shouldnt? i think maybe she feels comfrtable in one or two meeting or this wont work? please guide me..i m really new to it..so i need a guidance.


thankyou
 

Shy wrote:

Mayank, As I said above you don't have to do anything until you feel inspired. To be inspired means when you feel a strong urge to do something from the place of feeling good. These are nudges from the universe which helps in manifestation process.
What you asked about is not an inspired action. You're analysing too much and finding ways to see her that won't help. Yes, casually you can ask them but only when you feel good to do it.

 shy thats what my actual question is..my mind makes me think that seeing her for few times will help and make her feel comfrtabl...fine you are saying that the universe will give me a call to act..how actually i will understand this signal .can u pls tell.how this urge would be coming..How is this urge..pls tell me abt this inspired action.

Last edited by mayank.sharma2993 (2/04/2016 6:43 am)

Yes, I understand it. Your mind is tricking you by giving explanations. Inspired action is nothing but an action you take based on your urge. For example, you are thinking about a friend. Next day, you have an urge to go out for a coffee or you think it will be nice to walk outside and whilst walking you bump into that friend you were thinking about. (It's just an example to tell you what I mean by inspired action) I can suggest you only but you should follow your heart always because after all you know yourself and your girl better but whatever you do, you should do it from the place of feeling good.