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- veggiepizzaforever
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Re: He bailed
Stop focusing on the things he's saying or has said and focus instead on YOURSELF.
Give up chasing him and find ways to make yourself happy. The Universe doesn't forget your desires. It will bring you what you want only when you're ready and right now, you aren't.
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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I've decided to not respond to his message and just chill out until I can get into a better groove. I'm going camping and doing fun things soon so it should be fun. Hopefully I can feel happier about life soon!
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Being with nature will help tons. 
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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How do you know when to give up on your love though, how can you know when to fully let go of the hope and the determination to be with your love again. That's why I'm on the cusp of leaving it all behind. I'm just confused and it's a battle in my head.
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Re: He bailed
confusedone wrote:
How do you know when to give up on your love though, how can you know when to fully let go of the hope and the determination to be with your love again. That's why I'm on the cusp of leaving it all behind. I'm just confused and it's a battle in my head.
Its easy!!!!
Never!!!
You never give up on your love.... but just sitting and waiting for someone is bad !!!
Enjoy life as it is !! Universe can see the bigger picture!! maybe it will get you someone better!!!
Or the one you want when the time is right!!!
she is mine..... she is in love with me.... and i love her unconditionally!!
- veggiepizzaforever
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How do you know when to give up on your love though, how can you know when to fully let go of the hope and the determination to be with your love again. That's why I'm on the cusp of leaving it all behind. I'm just confused and it's a battle in my head.
Ask yourself: is it worth it?
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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I think it is, but he has not changed. He tries to prove to me that he has in different ways, and he tries to show that he's over me. I know this is starting a new relationship with him if we do get back together, but I still see him as someone I want to spend my life with. However, day by day, he becomes a stranger to me. I don't know who he is anymore.
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You're impatient and you don't trust the process. You get dejected and feel frustrated when you don't see results but how can you get results when you're not vibrating at your highest? I've been through this, there are days when I feel like this but I don't dwell.
Stop trying to get back together with him and work on yourself. Are you happy right now with who you are?
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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I'll be honest, no. I've become manic in a sense that makes me feel like I'm not myself. I'm happy with where my life is at, but not happy at the person I've become over the last two weeks. I've become needy of attention and just generally anxious.
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That's ok! I was a mess for 3 weeks before I picked myself up and made a conscious effort to be better.
You can't carry on like this. You owe it to yourself to step back and be the happiest, cutest, and bestest you in spite of all the **** that's happening in one aspect of your life.
This breakup of mine had me thinking my life was in shambles. I would wail "what am I going to dooooooooo!!!!" But the reality is, it's only one aspect of my life that's not going great. I have a great job, I have a social life, I have 3 beautiful cats, and I have my mom. I have a roof over my head that I don't pay rent for and I can afford the basic necessities + more. I am SO SO grateful for everything that I have.
And this one aspect of my life that isn't going so well? Well, it's not gonna last long.
Focus on things that make you happy. Self-improvement should be your goal right now, not reconcilation with your guy.
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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