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He bailed
So my ex bailed on our meet up and asked to see me the next day. I told him I could see him after work. Then, no response from him. This morning I was quite angry and sent him a text saying that all I wanted was my belongings back and that I would leave straight after. Again, he saw my message and didn't respond. I'm feeling quite angry and desperate and don't know what I should do. My friends say he is ignoring me and it's obvious that he doesn't want anything to do with me. I just don't know anymore.
- Angellynn
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Re: He bailed
confusedone wrote:
So my ex bailed on our meet up and asked to see me the next day. I told him I could see him after work. Then, no response from him. This morning I was quite angry and sent him a text saying that all I wanted was my belongings back and that I would leave straight after. Again, he saw my message and didn't respond. I'm feeling quite angry and desperate and don't know what I should do. My friends say he is ignoring me and it's obvious that he doesn't want anything to do with me. I just don't know anymore.
Don't do anything, just don't fight it just let all the emotions go that you're feeling right now. Keep believing and trust and know that the universe is working for you. Just don't let him bailing on you or ignoring you get to you. And I don't think it's a good idea to keep checking to see if he got your message or not you're creating resistance by checking up and seeing if he messaged you or not and waiting for a text that is never going to come. Just let it all go relax breathe don't fight it and don't look at the messages anymore trust me. Everything will turn out in your favor if you let it honey 
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- veggiepizzaforever
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Him bailing doesn't have anything to do with you. Something might have come up. I know it sucks not being the most important person to the person we love, but that's our ego talking. Our ego gets hurt when we can't control things. Let go of your ego. He even re-scheduled! That's a good thing.
It's okay to be angry but next time, don't act out of anger or fear because it will only work against you.
I think this is happening because you truly aren't ready to meet with him.
Ignore what your friends say. Have confidence in YOU. TRUST in yourself and the Universe. You already know what to do, objectively; apply what you know about LoA and stop letting your ego take control!
I was chatting with my love today and it's like he wasn't interested in the conversation or with what I've been up to. That's my perception and I just let it go. He's dealing with jet lag, he just got home from a business trip/vacation, after all. My friend said count the fact that we chatted as a small win.
Focus on the small wins.
YOU CAN DO THIS. Please please please trust in yourself. Journal and let all these feelings out and then meditate and see where your mind takes you when it's quieted down.
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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Re: He bailed
So my ex bailed on our meet up and asked to see me the next day. I told him I could see him after work. Then, no response from him. This morning I was quite angry and sent him a text saying that all I wanted was my belongings back and that I would leave straight after. Again, he saw my message and didn't respond. I'm feeling quite angry and desperate and don't know what I should do. My friends say he is ignoring me and it's obvious that he doesn't want anything to do with me. I just don't know anymore.
You always want to give the other person the benefit of the doubt. You don't know what came up. Try not to let anger overcome you, it only hinders your manifestations. Be positive and have a loving vibration. You want him to feel your positive vibrations not your negative vibrations. If you are experiencing anything negative, do something that makes you feel really good. Get your nails done or etc. Look in that mirror and say you are an attractive loving woman that has a healthy, loving relationship with him.
Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day. Everything takes time which is hard for a lot of us to remember. So chin up high. You are a beautiful person We create our own destiny.
We create our own destiny and we can do this. I love myself and all of us are amazing and beautiful inside & out.
- confusedone
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Everything you say is true. I ended up just working hard all day and didn't really think about him. He sent me a text later, apologising but it didn't seem sincere from my standpoint. Sometimes I feel like he is trying to prove a point to me by telling me how busy he is, but I'm not too sure. I really do believe that there are still feelings between us, but I just don't know. And I guess to not know, causes us to believe.
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You're doubting him and you're doubting yourself. He can feel that.
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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You're doubting him and you're doubting yourself. He can feel that.
This.
The way you're wording and phrasing stuff – to me, it doesn't sound like this is coming from a place of love. It seems you're a little irritated with this whole thing, and you need to drop that immediately. Send him amazing love, forgive him for whatever he's done and whatever you're still annoyed about, and things will materialise. If you're coming at it from a place of negativity then that's all that will be reflected back into your reality.
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I think the reason why I'm irritated is that I'm just confused. I want to give up but I want him back and maybe that's affecting my energy. I'm just so conflicted because he's said all these things that make me stop and think about him and whether I really want him. But I still do. I think I'm also irritated because I haven't seen progress with him and I getting any closer, but then again, Rome wasn't built in a day and I just have to learn patience.
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Thread Starter- Angellynn
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I think the reason why I'm irritated is that I'm just confused. I want to give up but I want him back and maybe that's affecting my energy. I'm just so conflicted because he's said all these things that make me stop and think about him and whether I really want him. But I still do. I think I'm also irritated because I haven't seen progress with him and I getting any closer, but then again, Rome wasn't built in a day and I just have to learn patience.
Honestly I feel the same way I just feel like I been focusing too much and putting so much energy on my ex and analyzing the process so much and makes me feel like I wanna give up too but I always tell myself that I won't stop giving up on my ex until I get her back even when we do get back together I won't give up on her. I've actually gotten some pretty good signs and that gives me hope. Also looking at success stories does too! Sometimes I feel like giving up but I know I can't and shouldn't cause I still want her. Don't worry about the proof if it's workin or not just trust and believe that it is and focus on doing what makes you happy it takes practice and I know I am feeling a little down too like I wanna give up and questioning if I really do want her or not I do want her I just think it's cause I haven't seen her in awhile it's hard to visualize and everything but just get into into your subconscious mind that you will get your ex back and stay positive
"The past, the present, and the future are really one: They are today" Harriet Beecher Stowe"
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Heyyyy... Confusedone! Relax! First of all change the user name! Use some positive user name..u will feel positive!
Second of all does your world only revolve around him? No ..right? So he is replying or not why it should bother you?? I mean why are you messaging him even? Do you really want your stuffs back or you want to contact him,meet him with THE MOST TRADITIONAL EXCUSE??! The more you will contact him the more he won't reply (human nature)!
For example, suppose you and your mom had a fight, and you decided not to have the dinner.. If your mom requests you ,pleads you to eat , you will stick more on not having the dinner! But if she doesn't you will eventually go and have your dinner when you are hungry!
Let him get hungry too.. Until then sit back relax and visualize how much he loves you!
And I would suggest you to stay away from friends who keep on saying negative things like "he is ignoring you",etc. And one more thing, you have seen that he saw your message but still dint reply,that means its some social platform ..i would also suggest you to stay out of these social stuffs..i reasons I think I don't have to explain ..you know it!
Love you.... And once more relax darling!
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