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He bailed.
So I was supposed to meet my ex today and he completely bailed on me. I'm not sure whether his reason is legit or not but he asked if I could see him tomorrow. I'm working tomorrow and I think it's for the best, just so I don't look too available to him. I'm really disappointed because I thought this was the start of our rekindling...
I sent him a text saying that I could meet him tomorrow after work and that it was up to him. He's seen the message but has not replied. He's also apologised for bailing but again, in severely disappointed in myself for getting my hopes up, and in him for pulling back even more. What do I do...
- Cherished
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Re: He bailed.
What you do is refocus and know that the only thing that matters is your vibration. So raise it up. The most powerful thing you can do is.... Nothing. Don't take physical action, but energetically do all you can to feel better.
And please try to reframe this. Him bailing is the easiest, best path to your desire. The universe can see the entire unfolding, and is taking care of it for you. From your limited perspective, his bailing may seem wonky. But it's time to trust that everything is going according to plan- a plan that you need not even worry about. The universe has got your back, everything is perfectly perfect. And his bailing serves a wonderful purpose in the magical way your reconciliation will come about. Trust it and don't fear. Love. Just love, yes? 💜🌈
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Himanshupatil
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Re: He bailed.
relax,
think of a nice meeting..
have fun!!!!
she is mine..... she is in love with me.... and i love her unconditionally!!
- confusedone
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Re: He bailed.
Cherished wrote:
What you do is refocus and know that the only thing that matters is your vibration. So raise it up. The most powerful thing you can do is.... Nothing. Don't take physical action, but energetically do all you can to feel better.
And please try to reframe this. Him bailing is the easiest, best path to your desire. The universe can see the entire unfolding, and is taking care of it for you. From your limited perspective, his bailing may seem wonky. But it's time to trust that everything is going according to plan- a plan that you need not even worry about. The universe has got your back, everything is perfectly perfect. And his bailing serves a wonderful purpose in the magical way your reconciliation will come about. Trust it and don't fear. Love. Just love, yes? 💜🌈
I guess yes, that is true. It's just awfully hard to believe that things will pan out right when my heart aches so much from him bailing. I will meditate and clear my energy before going to sleep tonight and hopefully will wake up and have a better day. It's just tough right now and I'm feeling the same pain and desperation all over again.
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Thread Starter- pectinase
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Re: He bailed.
You're putting too much weight on this. There could be a MILLION reasons for him not meeting up – personal, work, maybe he's not feeling well, maybe he accidentally double booked, maybe he's nervous. You're creating a story in your head that he bailed because he's not interested or something, when it could be any number of different scenarios.
The truth is that he has a life and his own issues, and it's important for us ALL to come to terms with understanding that people have their own things going on sometimes and their life does not revolve around us. Even now I'm starting up a new relationship with my boyfriend again (thanks to LoA!) he'll occasionally have to cancel on me for one reason or another.
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