honestly,
what you are experiencing now is result of your past thoughts...
irrespective of what anyone says.... you can desire what you want and with LOA have it...
its entirely up to you!!!

Almost of my LOA friends are here.. The rest of them are CBD's.... Creators by default 😜 But that's ok, so was I before. I don't allow myself to get sucked into certain conversations. I nod and smile and exclaim "OMG!" in all the right places, but if the topic is something that creates resistance within me I simply wander off, or go find snacks or something!

AND what you will find is that your circle of friends will either be influenced to higher vibrations with you, or you simply won't have as many interactions with them. You attract more like-minded people eventually. We are all here to experience what we desire, and we all have different desires. Whatever doesn't resonate with you, simply don't take it on board. You can be polite and pass it off easily in front of them, and then when you're driving home by yourself you can say "pffffffft, NO WAY BUDDY, THIS IS THE REALITY I'M CREATING!"

I've been in the same situations before with my lover, and everyone always had something negative to say about her or us not being together.. I recently told my mom that I'm doing LOA and I desire to have my love return back to me and she was just saying things I did not want to hear, but I didn't give into it I told  her I respected her opinion, but I am going after what I want no matter what. So just have a mindset and focus only on what YOU what despite what others say if you have to just block them out. I know how it feels especially when your friends talk bad about your lover, but they are different people and their thoughts and opinions don't really matter most times. In your situation your friends comments don't matter as long as you believe then you will achieve and receive. When she says those things maybe it is because she experienced something with a lover and doesn't have hope, but knowing LOA is the key to everything!!

Michelle wrote:

I know how you feel. Everyone around me tells me the same thing. That I should move on. But it's our choice who we love. If you feel he is right for you do it. I try not to bring him up in talks with my close ones because it makes me  sad to hear bad things about him. But in my heart he us always there

Yes, I know he is my soulmate! Its so hard not to talk about him the thought of him brings me so much joy - as cheesy that is. But I will just talk here avout him if you guys don't mind.

Cherished wrote:

Almost of my LOA friends are here.. The rest of them are CBD's.... Creators by default 😜 But that's ok, so was I before. I don't allow myself to get sucked into certain conversations. I nod and smile and exclaim "OMG!" in all the right places, but if the topic is something that creates resistance within me I simply wander off, or go find snacks or something!

AND what you will find is that your circle of friends will either be influenced to higher vibrations with you, or you simply won't have as many interactions with them. You attract more like-minded people eventually. We are all here to experience what we desire, and we all have different desires. Whatever doesn't resonate with you, simply don't take it on board. You can be polite and pass it off easily in front of them, and then when you're driving home by yourself you can say "pffffffft, NO WAY BUDDY, THIS IS THE REALITY I'M CREATING!"

Hahaha. Thank you! I like the idea of just getting snacks. Well when she gets in these rants I feel bad and I just move away from her. Its hard since we live together but I go in another room. She is just so disdainful about him and I..its crazy. But yes I know that it is my reality I am creating. And she doesn't know him. Hes a great man and I will marry him at the right time. I am happy about your response. Thanks again.