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1/31/2016 4:03 pm  #1


Trying to let go

Hey everyone  I'm trying to manifest my soulmate and to be in a happy, loving relationship with him. I've dated guys here and there but keep coming back to him.  We dated for a short while but he mostly took advantage of me in that time, I am quite vulnerable anyway but I can't help how I feel about him and I know what we had was special and we could have the most wonderful relationship.

Really don't know what else to do at this point though. And letting go just feels like I'm giving up. I'm not sure if I even know how to properly let go, obviously since I haven't manifested this relationship yet  So what I'm asking is what should I do at this point, and what techniques or methods should I use to let go?

 

1/31/2016 4:19 pm  #2


Re: Trying to let go

From my understanding of LOA thus far (started in November 2015), letting go means you have no emotional attachment to the outcome (the when, the where, and the how). You have to be okay with the fact that you may not get him back. Obviously, you've been able to do that by dating other guys.

I too am like you. I have dated other guys, and I do keep coming back to this one guy. We dated for a short amount of time, but deep in my heart I've never felt a connection with the other guys that I had with him.

Someone said this to me one time and I hope I say this right...


Why are you so upset about him, when you already have him? He's not here physically.. Yet. He's coming. Keep that in mind. You've got him! How wonderful that feels!! You've already manifested him once!


"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" -
Believe, Josh Groban
its hard to have a better tomorrow if you're still thinking about yesterday

 
 

1/31/2016 4:38 pm  #3


Re: Trying to let go

Ellie wrote:

Hey everyone  I'm trying to manifest my soulmate and to be in a happy, loving relationship with him. I've dated guys here and there but keep coming back to him.  We dated for a short while but he mostly took advantage of me in that time, I am quite vulnerable anyway but I can't help how I feel about him and I know what we had was special and we could have the most wonderful relationship.

Really don't know what else to do at this point though. And letting go just feels like I'm giving up. I'm not sure if I even know how to properly let go, obviously since I haven't manifested this relationship yet  So what I'm asking is what should I do at this point, and what techniques or methods should I use to let go?

No techniques or methodes can prepare you to letting go. This come with time when you start realized that your ex is coming to you, even if you dont see it. When you start letting go you will see change of your energy. You will feel better. You will have smile on your face all day, because you undersatnd LOA and you can create everything. I found that it is easyer if you are focus on something else. For example: I always want my dream car. It is AUDI RS4 avant, and i imagine how it will be when we will have this car and how i drive her and our baby. I imagine what feeling i will have when i will sit in this car and she will be next to me and our baby on rear seat. So what i am doing with this is i am not 100% focused on her because there are other desires. Car, baby, money, vacation, happines..... Just create your story and live in this story in your minde for now. Put all your desires in this story. Dont worry about how, where, when just live in this story now. When you will feel bad, just close your eyes and go thrue story and feel the feelings.
 

 

1/31/2016 5:04 pm  #4


Re: Trying to let go

Thanks so much for the replies!

I do like the idea of focusing on something else to keep my spirits up and feel good about something because I understand feeling negative doesn't help.  I just wish I didn't feel so attached and drawn to him and wish I could let go of those strong feelings of attachment because it'll stand me in better ground to get him back.  I'm going on a date this coming weekend but I know from my other dates that they don't really help take my mind off my guy.  Is there anything you guys have read or watched that you could suggest to help me along the way?

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1/31/2016 5:21 pm  #5


Re: Trying to let go

I have this problem too. I feel like I couldn't wait more than one or two months.. And that is probably delaying my manifestation.

 

1/31/2016 5:37 pm  #6


Re: Trying to let go

Michelle wrote:

I have this problem too. I feel like I couldn't wait more than one or two months.. And that is probably delaying my manifestation.

Dont wait. If you wait, universe will give your more wait. Go out, have fun, help other your friends with LOA, get on date but be honest.  I am sure that you know that story: Couple have break up and the person who left get in new relationship. After some time the person who was left found antoher partner and the person who left in first place, start chasing prevision partner. This is old story and it have a lot of with LOA. Partner who was left put out a wish to be together with his/her ex, but ex dont come back. After first person found new partner he/she change his/her energy because he/she is in love. This energy combine with wish (get her/him back) change everything and ex start to come back. I know 100 person who experiece this story. Even i have experience with this. One of my ex left me, but after 5 or 6 months, her boyfriend left her and she star chase me, but in that time i didnt have anymore feeling for her so we didnt reconcile. This story with different scenario in will be made for you. On you it is just to choise if you want ex back or not. Have fun, create your life, manifaste little things to keep up with faith, go out.... If you want your ex, than it is yours. Belive :D

 

1/31/2016 7:31 pm  #7


Re: Trying to let go

Hi Ellie...I completely understand how you feel. It's not easy to stop thinking about someone that you really love because I used to do the same thing. But I realized that I didn't see any results because I was afraid he wouldn't come back to me. And, I had some successes with him but it didn't last so long. I was a complete mess but after analyzing what I have done wrong I can finally say that I'm actually calm and know he is mine and I will marry him. It took me over a year to finally control my thoughts and emotions but for the past few weeks I have been feeling way better and I know I'll be with him even if I can't see any results right now.

I recommend reading It's Done by Richard Dotts, this book really helped me relax and understand how I was blocking my own desires from manifesting. Hope you like it!
 

 

1/31/2016 10:03 pm  #8


Re: Trying to let go

Blessedck wrote:

Hi Ellie...I completely understand how you feel. It's not easy to stop thinking about someone that you really love because I used to do the same thing. But I realized that I didn't see any results because I was afraid he wouldn't come back to me. And, I had some successes with him but it didn't last so long. I was a complete mess but after analyzing what I have done wrong I can finally say that I'm actually calm and know he is mine and I will marry him. It took me over a year to finally control my thoughts and emotions but for the past few weeks I have been feeling way better and I know I'll be with him even if I can't see any results right now.

I recommend reading It's Done by Richard Dotts, this book really helped me relax and understand how I was blocking my own desires from manifesting. Hope you like it!
 

That was beautiful thank you for sharing ! I just purchased the book !

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