When you find yourself feeling emotionally attached to having a certain thing, a certain situation, a certain person, and it's not showing up...make a conscious decision to LET GO.

Be okay with not getting what you want right away. Be okay with things staying as they are.

I know that's easier said than done, but strangely there is also a certain sense of peace that comes along with giving up the fight. When you've been trying to FORCE something to happen quickly, you are expending a LOT of mental and emotional energy! As a result you end up feeling worn out and depleted.

On the other hand, surrendering to the universe's higher wisdom and letting go inspires a sense of calm detachment and peace in the present moment. You realize that you're still okay, even without this thing you want so desperately.

Letting go does not mean you won't get what you want. It means you are choosing to know that you're okay without it right NOW. It means that the arrival of it will be a great bonus, but your inner peace and well-being are not dependent upon it.

More often than not, we look to our outer circumstances to determine whether our intentions are working or not, but the outer clues don't always tell the full story. What we can't see is all of the energy and magnetism we've already built up in the invisible. We can't see that our desire is getting ready to break through - and it WILL break through, unless we begin creating blockages that prevent it from doing so.

Yes, our very feelings of desperation and frustration are the cause of the blockages! The longer we stay in that frustrated mind-set, the longer we're going to delay the arrival of what we want.

The next time you find yourself hanging in limbo between wanting something desperately and noticing you do not yet have it - STOP and LET GO. Just let go. Turn it over to the universe. Be okay with not having it. You can still visualize having it, you can still believe it's coming. But DETACH from any need to have it RIGHT NOW.

When you do this, you enter into a state of "allowing" and that thing you've been wanting so badly can finally come to you.