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Talking to someone new
So there's this guy I met online and we have been talking for a little bit and he has an interest in me. We stopped talking for some reason for about a week or so, and then he pops up again outta nowhere after I deleted his number! I have to admit he is very cute and we haven't met in person yet. Buttt I am attracting my ex back and I know she's the one. I don't really know tooooo much about this guy other than he is cute, but i think it will be good to have fun and date and see other people too. I want to have fun and still live life and I feel like I have been vibrating at a pretty high but not too high level... Today I was kinda meh but that's only cause I was tired, and some negative thoughts crept up but I didn't pay no mind to them. But what do you guys think about this? Or any advice? This new guy texted me saying " I never really been ATTRACTED to a black girl before but you are soooooo beautiful! Plus today a girl I met at my college gave me her buy one get one free Chipotle gift card and just a few weeks ago I unexpectantly got a free Burger King meal! I can feel and see the universe working, and then with my ex messaging me and saying good stuff towards me... I feel like things are going great! I wanna have fun with this guy but I am not ready to commit to him and date him just to have fun and have new experiences and growing myself as a person. I KNOW I will attract my lover back, and when we talked recently she even noticed some changes I made so if I keep it up I will attract her back into the person I need to be for ME and our new relationship together, but mainly ME because I come first! 
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Re: Talking to someone new
You don't have to commit to him. Just be honest with him that you're not looking for anything serious. And don't be forced into doing anything you wouldn't want!
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Re: Talking to someone new
veggiepizzaforever wrote:
You don't have to commit to him. Just be honest with him that you're not looking for anything serious. And don't be forced into doing anything you wouldn't want!
Okay, thank you so much! yeah I really don't wanna commit and I just found out he has a son! yeah I will need to tell him that eventually!
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Thread Starter- big_blue
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I have tried to date other guys while still thinking of my guy. I only recently discovered LOA, so all these other guys were pre-LOA. BUT, it never really worked out with the other guys
I truly think the universe is making sure I'm available for my guy. And I'm okay with that.
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I have tried to date other guys while still thinking of my guy. I only recently discovered LOA, so all these other guys were pre-LOA. BUT, it never really worked out with the other guys
I truly think the universe is making sure I'm available for my guy. And I'm okay with that.
Oh yeah!? yeah you're right. That makes me feel better!
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Thread Starter- Dan2015
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I have tried to date other guys while still thinking of my guy. I only recently discovered LOA, so all these other guys were pre-LOA. BUT, it never really worked out with the other guys
I truly think the universe is making sure I'm available for my guy. And I'm okay with that.
This is so true, I had chances of dating other women, but it seems like for some reason or another, things don't workout.. They either end up dating someone else or we just don't talk as much, and I feel it's the universe keeping me available... I don't even get sad or anything, I'm just enjoying the journey.
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I got on Tinder and chatted with a few guys (posted a couple of funny convos on Facebook/Twitter and my love liked the posts) but it wasn't for me. I eventually took myself out of the card stack so people can't find me.
I'd like to go on a date but I'm not at that point yet where I want to get to know another guy as a potential partner haha.
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I got on Tinder and chatted with a few guys (posted a couple of funny convos on Facebook/Twitter and my love liked the posts) but it wasn't for me. I eventually took myself out of the card stack so people can't find me.
I'd like to go on a date but I'm not at that point yet where I want to get to know another guy as a potential partner haha.
haha! yeah its fun but nothing serious, that's how i feel like if it was my ex then i would date her as soon as she would ask me but taking things slow only because of the history we have and i would'nt have to take the time to know her as much! But since they guy i am talking to is a new person it will take a while to get to know him in order to date him, and plus the only serious reationship i am looking for right now is with my ex
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Thread Starter- Anna_9Above
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Really funny we are talking about this. Remember no one has an ex here. We are already in a relationship with the person we wanna be with.
I, too, am on a dating site. I've had thousands of guys look at me. The last 2 dates I have been stood up. Tonight's date cancelled. I wonder what God and the Universe is telling me?
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Really funny we are talking about this. Remember no one has an ex here. We are already in a relationship with the person we wanna be with.
I, too, am on a dating site. I've had thousands of guys look at me. The last 2 dates I have been stood up. Tonight's date cancelled. I wonder what God and the Universe is telling me?
It's trying to say we're not quite there yet. This is a great time to find the underlying belief, feeling, or thought pattern, and flip it around into an affirmation.
Example: What does it mean about you? How does it make you feel?
It means ______(Im not good enough, I'm not attractive, etc). It makes me feel _____(I'm powerless, hurt, frustrated, etc).
Then we can flip it around and affirm a much more truthful statement. (I am divine. I am powerful. I am loved. I am valuable. I am worth it.)
Sometimes the affirmation you make feels so good that it has nothing to do with the original problem, and that's when we know we hit a sweet spot.
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