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1 - TheGiver
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This was supposed to happen.
We've all been in the same boat:
Met amazing gal/girl.
Things were great.
Negative thoughts crept in.
These thoughts came to life and this person left us.
We found LOA and now we're here.
Because of all the pain and strife, do we wish we had never met them?
Of course not.
Because this was supposed to happen to us. We were supposed to meet them, and experience this wonderful feeling, and then have it taken away from us so we can appreciate just how precious it is. Before I met my guy I was clingy, desperate and needy. Then I met him and became even worse. Then he left and I became EVEN WORSE. But then I discovered LOA and have become the strongest version of myself I've ever been. I'm so happy this happened. Without him I never would've grown.
The universe didn't show you this amazing person, this amazing feeling just to snatch it away from you. It gave it to you and snatched it away so it could push you to grow. You two weren't right for each other at the time. But it showed you this light so you can build yourself up until you become the right person for them. You needed to lose it, to provide you with the right means to get it back.
Whenever I lose hope, I think "The universe didn't want me to be with him while I was the negative person I used to be. The universe wants me to be with him when I'm the best version of myself." So I lost him in order to set me down on that path.
This all was MEANT to happen. So don't look back.
- TheGiver
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Thread Starter- big_blue
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This is EXACTLY what I needed to read today. Thank you!
"Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
its hard to have a better tomorrow if you're still thinking about yesterday
- Angellynn
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Wow! This was amazing. Thank you for this I really needed to hear that! One of the truest things ever!
"The past, the present, and the future are really one: They are today" Harriet Beecher Stowe"
- Himanshupatil
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amazing!!!
the post break up journey improved me by leaps n bounds!!! both professionally and personally!!!
add to that LOA and nothing can stop me now from getting my dreams!!!
i always tell my friends that it is the best journey to discover yourself and make yourself the best that you can be!!!
isnt it great!!!
i love the thoughts posted above!!!!
she is mine..... she is in love with me.... and i love her unconditionally!!
- Sanshi
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Re: This was supposed to happen.
Lol...thought about this no 24 hours back.
Were we happy right before the breakup? I think most of us weren't. We felt insecure, critizised or whatever. Do you think you could have improved your relationship from within the relationship? Maybe. I for myself know that it had never worked that way for me. I know that this breakup is the only way for a better relationship. Do you ever thought "I wish it would be like at the beginning of our relationship?". I had this thought. Maybe the universe is just delivering at the quickest most effortless way. Do you know this stories about people who wish for more money and lose their job right after that? The universe makes room for a better job. Why shouldn't that be different with relationships? We have to leave the old relationship to get a brand new one with two improved people involved.
Enjoy your last months as singles in this life. 
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Himanshupatil
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Re: This was supposed to happen.
Sanshi wrote:
Lol...thought about this no 24 hours back.
Were we happy right before the breakup? I think most of us weren't. We felt insecure, critizised or whatever. Do you think you could have improved your relationship from within the relationship? Maybe. I for myself know that it had never worked that way for me. I know that this breakup is the only way for a better relationship. Do you ever thought "I wish it would be like at the beginning of our relationship?". I had this thought. Maybe the universe is just delivering at the quickest most effortless way. Do you know this stories about people who wish for more money and lose their job right after that? The universe makes room for a better job. Why shouldn't that be different with relationships? We have to leave the old relationship to get a brand new one with two improved people involved.
Enjoy your last months as singles in this life.
love that thought!!! what a way to look at life!!! simply awesome!!!
she is mine..... she is in love with me.... and i love her unconditionally!!
- TheGiver
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Lol...thought about this no 24 hours back.
Were we happy right before the breakup? I think most of us weren't. We felt insecure, critizised or whatever. Do you think you could have improved your relationship from within the relationship? Maybe. I for myself know that it had never worked that way for me. I know that this breakup is the only way for a better relationship. Do you ever thought "I wish it would be like at the beginning of our relationship?". I had this thought. Maybe the universe is just delivering at the quickest most effortless way. Do you know this stories about people who wish for more money and lose their job right after that? The universe makes room for a better job. Why shouldn't that be different with relationships? We have to leave the old relationship to get a brand new one with two improved people involved.
Enjoy your last months as singles in this life.
I'd never want to go back to the way things were at the beginning. Not because things weren't good--they WERE good. But I still had negative thoughts and insecurities. I want things to become even BETTER than the beginning, with renewed positive thoughts to match.
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Thread Starter- Love5278
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Wow I really needed to hear this today ! Thank you so much !
- Iamthatiam
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Wonderful quote I love it it's something we should keep going back to and reading when we feel low
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