The trick is to first find what's causing the pain. It has to do with how you are percieving things, how you see yourself, how you see the world, etc. A good series of questions can change the way you see things and change the beliefs that cause the pain. I understand if it seems difficult and you want assistance. I'm willing to work with you one on one and it might take time so I'd like to be compensated for it. PM me if you'd like me to work with you to help get this sorted out.

All the tools you need are here on this thread, and in your mind and heart. Use your intuition and spiritual knowledge to guide yourself to the truth.  When you find it, that's your success.