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- khushi
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i don't how i lost all my friends !! and what to do now ?
I don't exactly know where to start this post. It just seems like yesterday everything was going fine and alright and now suddenly, i find myself all alone and i don't know how things went so wrong and what did i do so wrong. I had a wonderful group of friends and we used to have so much fun. But now I am at a place where I don't talk to any of them and I see them all laughing so happily and I want to join them too but I just can't because no one wants me there. I feel like I used to be such an important part of this group and now people don't even want to talk to me. It all feels so bad and I want to go and talk but I just don't have the strength. And it all feels like why should I bow down.
One of my girl friends behaved badly with me and she stopped talking with me, so did I. And then there is a guy friend and we had some fallout. So, now whenever I go and sit with them, he does not sit with us and I feel so bad. I just feel like going and saying that i did wrong and please let this be over. and let everything return to normal. but i didn't do anything wrong then why should I be apologizing and what should I be apologizing for?
I feel like I have nobody here to talk to now. And its so depressing.
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Re: i don't how i lost all my friends !! and what to do now ?
And what feels even worse is knowing and accepting that I created all this through my thoughts. and I don't like it. And it feels like such a burden thinking about this all day.
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Thread Starter- TheGiver
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Re: i don't how i lost all my friends !! and what to do now ?
Then why don't you stop? Not being mean here. Literally just start writing a different story here.
Do you want these friends back or a bunch of new ones? You can have either of these things.
I know it's difficult to just shift the nature of your thoughts like this, but why don't you try just ten minutes of visualization where you conjure the scenario you want. Keep doing this every day, as long as you feel comfortable with, and then think thoughts you would think if this were your reality. You'll be shocked at how quickly your mental attitude will change.
- veggiepizzaforever
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I know what it's like!!! For 2 years, my love was my constant companion and now I don't have anyone to talk to about my silly thoughts or my day or funny work stories. But I realized the other day that it's ok. I don't even have a best friend right now and I feel disconnected from my friends but that's how things are sometimes. It won't be like this forever. I am my own great love and my own best friend. BUT I am also going to manifest a best friend because I would like a partner in crime haha.
In Yin yoga, my teacher tells us: all feelings, pleasant and unpleasant, are temporary and will pass. 
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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I understand that I have to shift my nature of thoughts and I do try to do that. But then when I see the reality that nothing is changing I automatically shift back to negative thinking like nothing is happening and its all a waste and I am jinxed. Because it has been too long that I have been trying to change all this.
Suppose I shift my thoughts. Then what am I supposed to do when I see them daily, do I greet them or just ignore them like before?
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khushi wrote:
I understand that I have to shift my nature of thoughts and I do try to do that. But then when I see the reality that nothing is changing I automatically shift back to negative thinking like nothing is happening and its all a waste and I am jinxed. Because it has been too long that I have been trying to change all this.
Suppose I shift my thoughts. Then what am I supposed to do when I see them daily, do I greet them or just ignore them like before?
If you're feeling lack or something which is making you feel bad about the situation, that means your subconcious hasn't absorbed it yet. You should fall asleep every night in feeling of wish fulfilled. When your subconscious will start to absorb these feelings of wish fulfilled, you won't have any confusion about it. You will wake up with happy thoughts and satisfaction. You don't have to initiate, universe will arrange things for you automatically. So don't worry about whether you should greet them or do something different in order to gain their attention. Let it be as it is until you feel totally satisfied with your vis. It should feel you as real as you see your physical reality around you.
💕Wherever you go, go with all your HEART.💕
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Okay. I have done this before but I did not gt any results. Can I do something other than visualisations?
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Thread Starter- veggiepizzaforever
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Okay. I have done this before but I did not gt any results. Can I do something other than visualisations?
Do things that make you feel good.
What we think, we create. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we become.
xo Gabby
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so i went ahead and talked again to them thinking that this is the last effort I would make. and if it does not work even this time, i will actually let go of these people.. and woahh !! it worked... so things are better now. not exactly perfect !! but i know it will all come around and be good !!
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Thread Starter- Berryluv
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Khushi... please read the post Cherished wrote titled. . Forget the past...
She is great..I know it will help you.
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