I see no concerns because you're going to be with him eventually anyway. And who says he's going to make out? And maybe it'll make him miss kissing YOU.

Let him be and don't worry about it. If you worry, you create what you are worrying about. Trust that you are the prize and you are worthy.

Let him come to you. Naturally. He will!

Surrender the need to control him and the situation.

That's healthy "giving up."

Just relax.

Things manifest when you don't think about them.

Watch a movie. Play a video game. Take a hot bath.

Just get your mind off it.

I get that but its like a friends with benefits thing i put myself in...my fault... and its been 2 years and i have not gotten commitment...that what i have been wanting. Don't get me wrong i know have come further then i was a year ago but its like dragging or i guess just really believing can i get this further or am i stuck... I definetly know its hard for everyone on here..  I just seem to be failing at dealing with this. 

Last edited by confused1077 (1/22/2016 11:43 pm)

I think i just decided to have fun with him and not focus on trying to be in a relationship with him? i m not sure if that is it but when we were just having fun and stuff. Idk I mean i asked him last month if he saw a future with us and he said yes. Then he got romantic. Just last week i told him i did something and mentioned how he hates emotions. He said he does not and that we just have alot to talk about and that what i did was girlfriend material, but we have yet to talk about it. Then on Tuesday i went to see him and he kept refering me as his x saying we should stop sleeping with each other but he doesn't want to but it eventually has to happen. meanwhile last month the romance , and him telling me he loves me well more then once. see the up and down...