You need to be happy with yourself. Not feeling good. You need to love your life. 
Without him! ... and only when you became independent from him, TO BE HAPPY ... you´ll have him, for real. The way you want.
Now focus on you girl!

confused1077 wrote:

Well i had felt really good lately...That cannot be forgotten? can it?

 
I think people are trying to get you to a place of detachment or letting go.  It's great that you have been feeling good. But it's also about your focus point. If you have focused on the  end goal, you would not be concerned about finding a reason to contact him or maintain contact just for the hope that the next conversation will be the one where everything falls into place and you get everything you desire.

I would take a step back, let what you want come to you. In regards to your friends with benefit situation don't use it as a stepping stone to the real thing. If it doesn't 100% feel right then ask yourself why and reset your focus from there.

Ultimately the general concenus is put your focus on yourself. If you try to manipulate the situation to get a result it sends out mixed messages of half belief half fear and as long, as that is where u are vibrating from you will find yourself in that position of feeling "so close yet so far"

It feels like you are forcing the manifestation. The relationship will happen when you are both ready. You may think you're ready but you might not be. He doesn't seem to be ready yet. Watch Veronica's video about not forcing the manifestation, it will help. I mean, you could have gotten back together but it might not be the relationship you both need and deserve.

HUG!!!!!!!!

Thinking positive should not be a chore. You need to develop trust, if you trusted the universe you wouldn't second guess yourself. No amount of chanting and actions you do will get you the desire outcome because you are reflecting opposition to the desire. If you were a farmer that planted a seed, you trust that the seed planted will grown. You don't dig it up every now and then to check if it takes root. You know with proper sunlight, water and because it is planted in good soil, the seed will flourish. You are the soil, the seed is the desire and the water and sunlight are your tools you use to nurture your seed.
Be the good soil..

well i ask because my vibrations are just meh just everyday going about my business not happy, little irritated with work...so that is why i ask. Cause when i am free or have a minute i act as if

Last edited by confused1077 (1/21/2016 4:13 pm)