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Hi, i m Himanshu Patil. i was in a relationship with my ex for 3 years. we loved each other and were committed and wanted to be married. last year in june we both hit tough times professionally. we also got into long distance relationship. It hurt us both coz we both missed each other very much. Than during november we had a fight.( 12th November) on her not being available for me and me being possesive about her, which led to a break and a break up 2 weeks later. i tried to reach out to her but she blocked me. i heard she started dating someone 1 week after the break up tho i m not sure about it. after breakup i really worked on myself and improved myself. i also came accross law of attraction while working on myself and it helped me get my career back on track. i really love my ex and i know she loved me too. it was just some small fights that spoiled it and i know if we come back togethere we r perfect for each other.
problem is that she has blocked me on social media. she didnt even wish me on my birthday(9th) 1 month after the breakup. i havent heard from her for 2 months now. benn 2 weeks i have been doing visualizations and meditation. someone plz help me realizee where i m going wrong! i m new to this forum so i hope you forgive my mistakes.
i was loyal, committed and i loved her very much. after break up she told me she loved me but we had issues. that was last i heard from her. she has never ever gone back to her exes, but she wasnt in a long term relationship before either. i really love her. any criticism and comments are helpful. i love to read the stories here
i love your support.!!!Β
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You can reunite, but you have to let go of needing her. Wanting is fine, but needing has to go! Welcome π
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Welcome to the forum, and Goddess Cherished is right on point. Check the threads and you will find some incredible gems here.
Also, the members here put these links together:Β
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yes i agree you are right on point. i m really struggling with letting go of the needing her part. i will try my best to stop the needing her thoughts and mayb focus on myself!!.Β
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You know what? I think as people begin this journey they are desperately wanting someone back. But they soon come to realise- as will you- that you actually want YOURSELF back. As you read the loads of brilliant threads on here, and watch others transform, you too will begin to release your grip on the girl. And she will reappear just like magic. You'll see π
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thank you so much for your absolutely brilliant reply!!! That really helped me feel better!! i m very happy i have your support!! that made me feel a lot better!!
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i m trying to manifest a text message but i am having real hard time letting go and ignoring reality. can anyone help me or suggest how to get over this problem. also any visualitsation tip would b great.Β
thanking you
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yesterday i did gratitude journal, scripting and feel it real.
surprisingly i went to sleep and i had a dream in which i met a girl, whom i had never seen before n we were like attracted to each other, we spoke and had fun. it was like a first meet with someone special. the dream really felt nice but it was not my ex in that dream
am i doing visualization right??? does that dream suggest i am on right path.
i must admit it felt wonderful to after feel it real to feel my ex near me!!!!
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Himanshupatil wrote:
i m trying to manifest a text message but i am having real hard time letting go and ignoring reality. can anyone help me or suggest how to get over this problem. also any visualitsation tip would b great.Β
thanking you
One particular bad day at work, I felt like I was having another breakdown and all I wanted was a text from my love. I went to the bathroom, sat inside a cubicle, and whispered his name over and over and over again, ending with "please text me." I was in a bad place! Needy and desperate and coming undone. He never texted.
Maybe 2 weeks later, on the day I decided it was time to stop being a sad mess and to work with LoA, I thought of my love fondly and sent that feeling out to the Universe. It was such a light, wonderful feeling. After a few minutes, I checked my phone and saw that he had messaged me! I wasn't even asking for any contact of sort.
Just come from a place of love. Do everything with love.
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veggiepizzaforever wrote:
Himanshupatil wrote:
i m trying to manifest a text message but i am having real hard time letting go and ignoring reality. can anyone help me or suggest how to get over this problem. also any visualitsation tip would b great.Β
thanking youOne particular bad day at work, I felt like I was having another breakdown and all I wanted was a text from my love. I went to the bathroom, sat inside a cubicle, and whispered his name over and over and over again, ending with "please text me." I was in a bad place! Needy and desperate and coming undone. He never texted.
Maybe 2 weeks later, on the day I decided it was time to stop being a sad mess and to work with LoA, I thought of my love fondly and sent that feeling out to the Universe. It was such a light, wonderful feeling. After a few minutes, I checked my phone and saw that he had messaged me! I wasn't even asking for any contact of sort.
Just come from a place of love. Do everything with love.
wow!!!! thats amazing!!!!! thank you for sharing your story!!! i feel so awesome to meet new friends on this forum??