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Hi everyone! So great to be part of this forum with the wonderful Veronica at the helm.
My problem is I had an intense situation at work. I was dealing with a very hostile customer, which escalated further and further, which after being subject to verbal abuse for a good five minutes, I overreacted and called him an "Asshole".
The situation has left me terrified - it made me feel absolutely horrible and brought up a lot of "victim" thoughts towards myself - like why did I have such a horrible year with my relationship and NOW my work life?
My manager has been wonderful about it - she has instructed me to write a statement and there WAS witnesses to the situation, but I'm terrified that this customer and the situation could ultimately end in my losing this job. I love the work environment and have never dealt with abuse like this in 7 years of working there - are they any ways I can speed an easy and positive resolution to this issue?
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Last edited by Readyanddetermined (6/28/2015 7:38 am)
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Welcome, I'm so glad you are here.Β
So sorry to hear about your problem at work.Β That really sucks!
Try to look at the positives in the situation.Β It sounds like your manager has your back - and that's a really good thing!
The best thing you can do is try to reassure yourself that everything will be ok.Β For whatever reason, that manifested.Β But, it could be more of the customer's journey - than yours.Β Just try to handle this in the most professional way possible, knowing that you are not at fault and that anyone else will see it this way too.
Keep loving your work environment! And trust in this situation.Β Also, trust that you will never be treated like this again.Β You are NOT a victim.Β You are the victor.
Keep affirming to yourself of your power and your safety.Β You will make it through this, and everything will be ok.Β
I'm here if you need me!