So right now I'm crushing on my friend who was also a coworker. I'm staying with family two and a half hours away after leaving an abusive relationship. I'm seeing a career counselor and planning to go back to school in the city where I was living/where my crush lives. We haven't spoke a whole lot since I've moved but were interacting quite a bit through twitter and had a really nice chat about a month ago. He gave me his number again and told me I could text or call him anytime. He said he misses me and hopes I can make it back to the city soon. Anyway, after doing some personality tests with my career counselor, the area of work he's going to school for came up really strongly in my results. I'm supposed to be researching the areas of work I'm interested in and speaking to people who work in those fields/are enrolled in those courses. I've actually always had an interest in writing and used to write as a hobby. It just so turns out that the course he's taking involves writing. I could totally hit him up for information on the course but I'm nervous. He's no longer just a friend, he's my crush. I feel like I can't pass up this opportunity to speak with him though. I feel like it's synchronicity taking place and this opportunity to open communication with him is being laid out for me. Should I get over my nerves and message him? I think I'm a little paranoid because about a week ago I read Pussy Whip by Lanie Stevens and have been trying her method on him. I haven't interacted with him as much since then so I'm wondering if he's resisting? It makes me nervous to message him but I'm probably thinking too far into this. What do you guys think?