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as there is billions of parallel realities, you dont need to care how he behaves or what he says now
you dont have to attract him back either as he is here already his loving caring devoted self is existing
all you need to do is to shift yourself to that reality where this loving himself exists already and is with you already
how you do that?
1. relax
2. ignore this reality as by ignoring it, you are moving away from it
3. ask yourself: what do I feel and how do I act when we are already together? What is the married and happy woman doing during her day? what is she wearing? How is she feeling? and then you do those things and feel those things
the more you do that the more and the faster you are shifting to the reality where he is crazy about you
all what we are doing is not understanding that he already exists the way we want him to behave to us, but we focus on what is now, thinking that this is real but it is not real, its one of many many many possibilities how he can be and how we can be
once we realize that its not him, but only one version of him, we get more power and can move to that version of him, who is begging for our attention
as at the same time as we are moving to the reality where he is crazy about us, we are also feeling how would that women who is loved and adored felt so we are moving to the reality where also we are different version, where we feel joyful,, carefree, smart, beautiful and unique
when we are not creating the reality but simply moving to that reality it suddenly feels like less work and more fun, at least to me
have fun with your shifting to an awesome parallel Universe where you are the top goods and he is just running after you so you stay with him forever as he knows how top goods you are and there is no other woman like you :-)
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Wow great post!! And so true . I just love coming on the furums and reading this fantastic positive post
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am glad you like it Allgood :-)
I feel more relaxed about things when I think about different realities and the fact I am not creating anything just moving into different Universe
its great to listen to Bashar, he has lots of videos on youtube on this topic and it always uplifts me
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This is amazing. Thank you for posting.
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Great post, I love this reminder that we need not worry about what we see now, just tap into the version of where things are great.
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While I completely agree with you and this makes me feel 'fresh' with how to deal with things, I have a question. While we act as if we are in that state (with the person), can we date other people? Like dates, not an actual serious relationship. Or would that go against it, since if we were with our love, we obviously wouldn't be seeing other people? (i have read before that we should date so that we don't have anything 'lacking' and we are happy with our lives, thats why I'm asking) Thank you!!!! <3
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PureLove wrote:
While I completely agree with you and this makes me feel 'fresh' with how to deal with things, I have a question. While we act as if we are in that state (with the person), can we date other people? Like dates, not an actual serious relationship. Or would that go against it, since if we were with our love, we obviously wouldn't be seeing other people? (i have read before that we should date so that we don't have anything 'lacking' and we are happy with our lives, thats why I'm asking) Thank you!!!! <3
My take on this question is do whatever makes you feel good. Sure why not have some fun and date. It's just one of many ways of showing the universe your putting yourself first. Just be honest with the person you are dating is all .
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I agree with allgood completely, do whatever makes you feel good
as you are in the state that you have it, its not because that way you want to have some outcome to happen, its just to feel good and thats why we do it, for the great feeling that we are not waiting for anything as we have it
and to be honest even if you have a partner, you can go out with other people, obviously you wouldnt probably date if you were married, but you would still go out with some people even if just for a coffee, etc. so you dont have to look at it as dating just having fun right now
but if you dont feel like dating, you dont have to, if it feels good and you enjoy the attention of another guys (which i think its great), then do it for sure
I would do whatever feels good, and I do date other men now, I keep telling them I want only friendship as that is what I feel but I am open to anything
I like the attention and it feels great so I do it and dont think about it as it is somehow crossing my intention to be married to my love
the best way is to just enjoy your life whatever it means to you :-) life is short so lets get the most out of it, if its to go out with men or friends or read book or jump from the plane, whatever :-)
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Yes! I touched on this last night with a friend who is new to LOA. I was telling her that we must ignore current reality. We create our own reality and can have anything we want. It already exists and we just have to align with it. It is difficult sometimes to get into that feeling place though. I do struggle a little with it.
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Natasha it will get easier. its our ego telling us that he is bad and doesnt want us. we have to shout louder to quiet the ego by telling ourselves over and over again, its not him, its one version of him
just say to your ego, thank you for sharing, i am happily married with my man (or in a happy relationship with him)
just say thank you i here you but my reality is this and that
what i do is when the ego is very loud and it doesnt work for me to shut it :-) i just try to focus on something else
i actually now am doing well land hardly think of him, so i hope it stays like that as i feel good :-) whenever i feel really strong then i just do some little feeling it real session otherwise do other things, thanks god with new year i got so busy with my work that the whole last week i was only thinking about gosh its evening again :-)