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- Helper
Offline - Registered: 12/25/2015
- Posts: 25
Is it all coincidence ?
Hello all,
This message is not critical nor negative, but all these stories, can they just be coincidence ? Pure luck.
As a rationalist with scientific education, I don't believe in things just like that. Nobody here does I think.
Like you I have been studying and reading everything there is to read, There is a lot of interesting knowledge and experiences gathered. But the proof of the pudding is in the eating. I had only small conscious results so far.
I dont expect you to prove LOA, Like gravity, loa is also something we can't prove. (yet)
But I'm asking to help me (and everyone else here) with some of your stories. Do you think you could have had the same positive outcome without any visualization and RS ? Maybe he/she was just going to come back to you either way. Regardless your efforts.
Thank you in advance for your uplifting answers.
- happygirl
- Warrior
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- Registered: 11/29/2015
- Posts: 257
Re: Is it all coincidence ?
Hi Together,
i do believe that we all desire him or her so much, even we try not to, that if we stopped everything, all the RS (I actually stopped that - didnt do me that well recently), Lanies method, visualization, etc. and we just continued with our life and just tried to be as happy as we can, wtihout even thinking about them what so ever or think about them just time to time and then continue with our life as best as we can even if we moved on completely and realized we dont want them, they would come back anyway at some point.
It did happened to me in my first relationship, I didnt know about LOA back then, none of us did, as it was 2001 and my boyfriend split up with me, I was devastated, was nearly hanging onto him begging him not to go to her. He was seeing someone else, it broke my heart and we tried to make it work but then I realized he wants both of us, so first I kicked him out, then I regretted it so started to beg him but he didnt want me anymore. It took some time, few weeks I would say, I even stalked him a bit, going to his parents where he moved and his brother told me he is not there and I knew he was, etc.
then I stopped and it all turned, I realized I cant be bothered, he cheated and I met another guy (not nice one but I didnt see that at that time) but basically I moved on. then I started to hear from common friends that he is talking about me all the time, misses me and so on, after 2-3 months he started to contact me, sent me gifts, flowers and tried everything to have me back, it lasted 10 years for him to realize that i dont want him any more.
It happened to me with other guys too, the minute I stopped wanting them, they started to slowly come back, but all of them I didnt want any more.
so I think the only thing which is blocking us is us and that all those techniques are here just to make us feel better and if we moved on or felt better without them and just relaxed and lived our lives our lovers would return anyway
I do believe though that certain techniques when used and at the same time we are being calm and relaxed, can make it a bit faster or deeper lets say when the lover returns
so if we do the techniques or mainly visualizations then when he is back our relationship will be much better and exactly as we want it to be
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com