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The power of visualisation
I was thinking today after reading a story on here and I remember a manifestation I had a few years back.
I had a crush on my neighbour in my apartment block. We had spoken a few times while waiting for the lift/ elevator as we lived on the same floor, and although he wasn't my usual type, I found his charm very appealing. I decided to visualise a date with him, I had already discovered LOA at this point. I visualised in detail being sat in a bar with him, laughing and having lots of fun. I spent a couple of minutes on the same visualisation for a few weeks, nothing happened and I wasn't really concerned if it came true.
Anyway about a month after I began the visualisations, I bumped into him and he told me he was moving out and renting out his place. He moved and I didn't see him after that, I also stopped visualising a date with him, and I thought oh well, I'm not that bothered. Three weeks after he moved out I bumped into him, not in my building but in a coffee shop in the city where I was living. He was very friendly, we chatted for a long time and the conversation ended with him saying "Would you like to go out for a drink sometime?" we exchanged numbers and we eventually had that date : ) It didn't progress any further, that's because we both realised we only liked each other as friends in the end, but I had only ever visualised one date nothing more with no resistance at all.
I have had success with visualisations on other things also. There is no need to doubt the process of LOA, which I am guilty of too sometimes. It really does work with patience, belief, confidence and non-attachment to the result.
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Re: The power of visualisation
Wow that was amazing ! Visualization is strong 
- Berryluv
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Re: The power of visualisation
Thank you for that reminder Cheer that visulization is a powerful tool.
I too had a crush on my guy, in grade school I was never attracted to him, but years later when I moved back to my hometown he had somehow caught my attention. I found out we had mutual friends and I made suggestions to his friend that he was pretty awesome. Within days he got my number and we were chatting everyday, eventually dating. He was very intense, as I had very intense visualizations about him but I would be totally shy when I'm around him. As of today we are still communicating and somewhat seeing each other. But I'm trying to figure out what went south and why the relationship never grew. We are however working on that. I guess I should be focusing on more solid relationship visulizations with him. It's just that letting go of the outcome part...I do find that dating other men helps to forget, but it's like so far nobody compares to my guy, he set the bar so high..
- Cheer
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Re: The power of visualisation
Yes visualisation is truly amazing
Berryluv - You were not attracted to your guy in grade school but years later you were - Maybe he was using RS on you? a thought. It's great that you're still in communication. Nobody compares to your guy because you know what you want! Keep visualising a loving relationship with him, it will work out in the end. I have struggled to let go of the outcome with my guy too, because of being so crazy about him, but now I've managed to relax more, by telling myself that I don't know when or how but I just know we will be together. After Visualising I feel so happy and relaxed.
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Re: The power of visualisation
Wow! Thatnks for sharing. I always wonder how does one not care and still manifest? I think it has to do with letting go of doubts and fears?
- Berryluv
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I like that idea of him RSing me Cheer. Sometimes I feel drawn to him for no reason. And when we first reconnected I was not into him as much but he was constantly obsessed with me.
Blessedck I too am wondering the same thing. As to attachment, yes I want marriage, yes I want this ultimate guy. However I should just pretend as if I don't care. I have always felt that if I wanted something I had to prepare for it. Prepare the space in the closet, space in the garage and such. How do I let go if I am sending him love and making room for him in my head.
I do however like the idea of our special people chasing us.
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Re: The power of visualisation
Yep letting go of the doubts and fears of him not being around physically, not letting go of your desire, what I meant to say 
As for manifesting the date, yes strange how it manifested after the intention was kind of not there any more, but shows how powerful visuals can be, could of been old thoughts catching up with current reality.
I have had experience where manifestations have really surprised me, where nothings happening, nothings happening, nothings happenings...same old ****, then suddenly there it is!! and I have to remember all of this because even with that previous proof , lots and lots of proof that LOA works, I still at times have began to think like someone who is sceptical of it all, but that's just a habit of previous beliefs before I found out about LOA. I know for sure now that's its very real and we create everything through thoughts and feelings.
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