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LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Interpreting signs » 4/28/2018 2:29 pm

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mb16 wrote:

So I asked for some guidance on a topic and I really feel like I have received a lot of signs but I'm not really sure how to interpret them. I mean, I am unsure if I should do this thing that I asked guidance about or not. Kind of confused, any thoughts?

In my opnion if you don't know the meaning of a sign it's not a sign.

In my experience signs are clear indications of either your desire unfolding or a reply to guidance you have asked for.

Whether you believe in God, another deity or you inner guidance - consider that all are giving forces. They are there to give you what you desire - so if u ask for a sign or ask for guidance - u will receive it in a manner that you understand.

It's also why you have to practice being open and ready to receive. When you are open whatever unfolds in front of you does so with clarity and u won't have to hang around asking the meaning of it. Go with you gut feeling and u will know what it means.

Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » Got the call! » 4/28/2018 8:09 am

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QuanaRamira wrote:

Ok, well, thank you, but I actually didn't take it to a big extreme and have been focusing on the positive, and really, this whole thing is a PROCESS, not about doing everything perfect and never having any doubts, etc. You also don't understand the relationship and why him calling from a friend's phone would be an issue for me, but like I stated in my original post I am changing it around to the positive anyway. It's not a big deal that I thought about it and it's normal to have not always positive/perfect thoughts pop up. I haven't thought about it THAT much, just a little and I haven't messed anything up. And even if I did "mess" something up, so what?  I know you mean well and I appreciate your feedback, but you really need to work on how you word things so you don't put people off. Just ask yourself how your words might come off before posting it. Doing this shows SENSITIVITY and consideration and will demonstrate effective and mature communication of your intended message. If you offend someone they won't want to hear/read your message. Because now I'm not wanting to come back here again. Take care.

I hope you feel better and lighter after this rant. Did u feel like you released something?

Sometimes when we are responding/ talking that is the best time to stop and listen.

Quieten the chatter. Quieten the need to respond. And simply listen to what is being said to you.

Personally I don't see what Cynthia said to you was unpleasant. It was short, sharp and to the point. She asked a fundamental question "why focus on anything  negative."

You are efforting and thinking too much. The fact you asked should u text someone else to ask him to call you from his phone (side note: absolutely do not do that. Screams needy) shows you need to let go and go with the flow. Can u see how much effort and low vibe that action and thought process is? When he is ready to call from his phone he will call you.

I'm sure 24hrs before he called all y

Law of Attraction Discussion » Can someone be a Friends with ex and attract him back too? » 4/10/2018 4:47 pm

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You can have whatever type of relationship you want with your ex, but you have to be honest with yourself about what you want.

Are there cases of friends or casual relationships becoming serious? Yes there are many but you have to have the correct mindset. Most of those situations the people involved will say things just evolved naturally - there was no pressure.

But if u start sleeping with someone or become friends with a person because you want them to be serious you will always be losing.

You shouldn't ever put yourself in a position of waiting for another person.

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Manifesting a relationship with a specific person » 4/06/2018 3:06 am

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happygirl97 wrote:

hello alisa

you say : he doesnt want a relationship currently.
That is so classic :D
I literally did a lot of research on the whole understanding men and dating topic. I studied it religiously.
when a guy says: i dont want a relationship CURRENTLY he usually thinks/ means: mhmm. I think I like her.. but.. woah, she thinks WAY too fast way too far ahead. I fear that she would be clingy and I dont want to give up my freedom.

It could be the case that you started to date him and you fixated on him and you were emotinally clingy and he felt that.
In order for him to want to commit he has to feel that:
a) you are emotionally attractive, you dont try to take emotions (security, love, happiness) from him, but you GIVE positive emotions to him. That means you have to love yourself.
b) you dont NEED him to feel happy. stop putting him on a pedestal and focus on things you love.

dont go to him and say: i want a committed relationship.
you will push him away if you stay in that emotinal state of being in need and longing and wanting security.
instead: be as fun and happy as before, but dont give him the benefits of a relationship ( treating him as a priority, being exclusive, having sex AND the emotional component of cuddling, you can have sex if
that is what you want but dont give him the cuddling and emotinal benefit e.g. leave after you have sex )
That is way more effective because you signal that you are secure and self-loving and you are not disturbed and angry about him not wanting to commit. and ususally, when he FEELS that he WANTS to commit.

This is not an exclusively "loa advice" but I wanted to share these things
Its important that you dont play games, but that you really start to feel:
- relaxed,not angry, frustrated, in need, longing
- secure
- worthy
- self-loving


Honey please forget all that pseudo dating nonsense about how a guy not wanting a relationship because you are acting needy or clingy. And how you should or s

Help me align please... 🙈 » I really want to change my life for the better » 4/06/2018 2:48 am

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Zinnia wrote:

I am a long time lurker, and I hope that I can get some guidance from other members. I consider myself to be a glass half full person and am generally optimistic and I think I look on the bright side more often than the dark side. I do a gratitude journal each night and write down things that I am thankful for, I think about them too and pray. I visualise things I want and I imagine being with someone who loves me and who I feel the same about, and also I think about when good times have been there in the past and things have worked out and I'm happy about that. These are more often than not things like a sunny day, a good cup of coffee, friends, someone doing a favour for me, a freebie, a good film, or book, a nice chat with someone, a good swim, things like that. Things and people get on my nerves sometimes but wouldn’t you all agree that is the same for everybody and it isn’t something I dwell on or anything so I don’t think that is stopping me from attracting the big things in my life that I want. I do nice things for myself like treating myself and pampering myself, spending time with positive people and doing things I enjoy doing. 
What would I have to do to change things in my life? These things aren’t right as I am going to tell you below.
1. I am more than 56 pounds overweight. I can still dress well and do my hair and my nails and I can pull it off as I don’t look huge but I know the difference as my favourite clothes don’t fit me any more and I know that it is not healthy for me.

2. I haven’t ever been in a proper relationship or been in love with anyone. I have thought I was sometimes but I know I wasn’t, I went out with a married man for a really long time. I am not proud of that by the way. I wouldn’t do that again.

3. I don’t have a real job, I have been doing temporary work for 3 years and I feel like the hired gun doing someone else’s job all the time and I’m always waiting for them to come back from s

Help me align please... 🙈 » I really want to change my life for the better » 4/06/2018 2:33 am

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fizzy wrote:

Me personally, I would change these things with a combination of action and LOA. What I mean is being overweight can be changed through consistent workouts and better diet. The job could be changed by diligently looking for a better job. For your relationship, I would work on manifesting that. It just takes a well thought out plan and consistent action.

Spot on.

Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » Dream Job & Salary Raise Manifestation Success Story! » 4/05/2018 2:19 am

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hopeful.h wrote:

Thank you!

I think the main point about this story is that you are still able to manifest great things even when you don't feel 100% great and very depressed. I think people freak out when they feel negative and it makes them think that if they feel negative then their manifestation and desires go away. I did this for awhile until I remembered my own story. lol 

That's a good point. And it's because they are not understanding the mechanics of delibrate creation. And this is a great example of how it works.

When I read her story I see a person who had a strong belief that her salary would be high. She saw herself with a high salary - she had staked claim on a higher salary. And when she was presented with a lower salary - she simply gave gratitude and moved on.

Manifesting comes from the intensity of your desire and your belief that it can manifest. To me the disappointment she first displayed wasn't defeat but defiance. And there is a big difference.

Once you change your mindset to "I will have. I can have" away from "I wish I could have" - manifesting will come with ease.

Help me align please... 🙈 » have you ever...? » 4/05/2018 2:05 am

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RoxyG wrote:

Hello!  I've been practicing LOA for years now with very little results.  I've been trying to attract my «not really ex» for close to 3 months now (we never really broke up, he was upset about a situation, he still has a key to my house and we are still «in a relationship» on social media but haven't spoken since... his 2 kids wrote to me asking why they don't see me anymore...)  But at this point, I'm starting to wonder if this LOA is not just crap to make us feel better.  Like religion does for some people.  I know everybody will say that it works wether we believe it or not but at this point, I'm starting to feel hopeless and I am tired.  He was the first relationship where I could actually be myself.  I always thought I had attracted him because I had described him EXACTLY when asking for my soulmate.  But now, it's like I don't know anything anymore.  Please help!  Thank you!

If you want to manifest a specific thing/person you have to become specific about exactly what you want.

Write out clear desires about what you want - what do you want your relationship to look and feel like? When you get clear on your specific desire - you will get a better understanding about what you need help with.

I see many write posts stating "I want xyz and I'm not getting it. Please help". To get meaningful help you need to find the problem to then be presented with a useful solution.

You need to know where you are now and where you want to go - to get the correct directions. So sit in silence and really anyalsis where u are - what do you want? Why do you think you can't have what you want? What would you have to believe to have faith that you can manifest hour desire?

Also read Manifesting Love - Elizabeth Daniels it is probaly one of the better resources for manifesting a relationship.

Law of Attraction Discussion » What is he experiencing during RS? » 4/02/2018 2:34 pm

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Only he can tell you what he is feeling. I wouldn't give too much thought to it just keep doing what you are doing and let the culmalative effect show itself in time.

@Cynthia RS is just sexual. RI and RS will give you the effect in accordance of how you use it. There are many success stories that show how effective RS/RI is.

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