Wow I love this so so so much as This is what  I've begun to do in the past few days already and it is 100% benefical. I've stopped focusing on my love and relationship and have focused upon how much I love myself and my friends and things that are EASY to feel good about, and though I'm not thinking of my relationship with my love, it's already began to improve now that I'm not focused upon It and letting the universe do its work as I feel amazing and raise my vibration. It's so true, as Abraham says. You can find the smallest thing that makes you feel good, focus on that and that's all the work you need to do in order to allow EVERYTHING you desire. Thank you for this challenge, i think this is so great! Im more often in the blue and as I've gotten off the relationship topic, i find myself much more often in purple now!


Also, when you stop focusing upon your ex altogether, you release all resistance upon that subject and allow the universe to do its work, and as long as you feel good, it will manifest

Of course there's nothing wrong with that AT ALL. The universe doesn't see what is "ethical or moral" those rules don't come into play with the universe. It simply gives you what it is you focus upon. Simple as that. It's okay to think that! Just don't think about their relationship too much, because if so, you're going to attract more of them being together because that's what it is youre focusing upon. Instead just focus on the relationship you desire with him and don't even worry about this third person. They're irevelent to what you wish to attract anyway. Incase you've never heard of it, i recommend the "wiping out thechnique" to get rid of this third person. It's very beneficial. You can find the video on YouTube it is by Agnes. Lots of love to you! You can have, be or do anything lovely

Sanshi wrote:

Thelawoflove wrote:

That's what I like to call him, I feel like saying ex is reinforcing what I do not desire for him to be haha..

By feeling the need to explain things to other people, you still activate the vibration of him being your ex, because that's still where your focus is.

Thelawoflove wrote:

I've noticed that's though I've fixed my vibration, and am 98% of the time content, since the day, I have been thinking of him nonstop and I know that I've got momentum of it since I have been thinking of him for a while..

Are you talking about your vibration about him or in general? If you had fixed your vibration about him, he would already be back. That he isn't means that you hold resistance and as long as this is the case, your thoughts about him keep you from getting him. As you said, you have momentum going on and it will take time to slow it down. You have control over your focus. Shift your thoughts every time you catch yourself thinking about him. That is uncomfortable in the beginning. It's much easier to let the momentum play out, but it isn't serving you. There aren't really much tips that I can give you. It's like working out. In the beginning, it just sucks. But when you finally have some muscles, it gets easier and easier. Mediate, take a nap, focus on other things, distract yourself.

Thelawoflove wrote:

I just know that I must let go in order for it to manifest.

I don't know what your definition of letting go is, but I know one thing: Doing something in order to manifest something doesn't work so well. The problem here is that when you really really want something, you are very aware of its absence. You don't really really want what you have, because the desire is satisfied, if that makes sense. So, by really really wanting it and really really wanting to manifest it, you are (in Abraham terminology) caught in step 1. You are focused on the absence end of the stick. The tricky thing about LoA is that the "I will

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