You are most welcome.

LotsOfLove wrote:

Sunshine&Dreams wrote:

Detach = destress about it. Don't keep overthinking, relax, don't necessarily NEED it to happen. Prefer it, but don't need it. Don't even care if it happens. Hence many exs come back when people have moved on. They aren't overthinking, caring, or doing much about that person.

I think this is the best explanation of detachment I have ever read!

Thank you, I appreciate that. I've been thinking a lot about that word and process. Like how it's come to be that I've manifested so much (especially lately) and how people can get hung up on it thinking that it means to completely let it go, remove yourself from ever wanting it, getting it, cutting the cords (all said in the negative ways). And it's not about not wanting it. It's really just that there is a part of us that doesn't even care if we get it. Hard when it comes to a person we want, but when I think about my dog or bird and how I manifested them, I really wanted them and was stuck on them (I cried when I thought of not getting my Doberman). BUT at the end of the day I didn't really care because one day I'd get a dog in the future and it didn't matter if it wasn't that one.

I think that's the point I reached with my SP. I really do want him, I want him to be it, I feel that he is, I know he is, but at the end of the day who cares? One day if he doesn't show up another will who will be better (they always have been better than the previous person) will. Boredom is another good word. When we get bored of the idea. Like, okay fine, show up, whatever. haha That sounds horrible, but I think everyone here knows what I mean. lol
 

Detach = destress about it. Don't keep overthinking, relax, don't necessarily NEED it to happen. Prefer it, but don't need it. Don't even care if it happens. Hence many exs come back when people have moved on. They aren't overthinking, caring, or doing much about that person.

I'm curious what you define as the problems that came again?

Could also be just energy based. I was doing so well energy wise these past few weeks and for about a week, I completely went into hermit mode. I stopped going on social media and don't have interest in it. Not because I'm in a bad place but just don't feel like it and I know many others outside of manifesting that are in the same boat. People who discuss how planets and earth cycles can affect our mood. Never really been into it but now that I'm learning more, I'm learning it's good because I see that it isn't me, but a natural cycle happening. We ebb and flow naturally with the earth. Knowing when my mood may naturally change helps me be proactive and embrace the flow more.