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Help me align please... 🙈 » Confusion » 8/13/2020 4:06 pm

Cynthia
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Peachpand wrote:

Hi beautiful and amazing people !!
I m in the LOA from some months because I fell in love with a boy that at the beginning he show me interest when I start feeling something he disappear . It is almost one months without contact and I found out that he called his gf with my name and I am confused because he also unfollowed me ?!?🤔 I don’t know why but he appears in my Instagram home and for u can I watch his stories ignore and continue with the “no contact rules “? Sorry maybe is a bit confusing how I wrote😭 I am Italian so sorry for some mistakes 🥺
Thank u in advance !

 
I'm confused, too, confused about why people waste their time on social media looking at things they don't want to see that are telling them they don't have their desire and are making them feel that they can't have their desire or that it would be very difficult. It makes no sense to me. Anything only has as much importance as you give it.

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Miss him more than I remember him » 7/30/2020 1:39 am

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Sel wrote:

It has been over 5 months since I saw or met my ex because of the lockdown. He broke up with me saying he has no feelings left over a month back. I'm following the 25 day challenge and trying to stay positive and live in the end. But I miss him more than I remember him. I'm afraid I will forget his touch and his voice. I'm afraid he won't remember anything if my memories go hazy. We are Not in contact.
I am very sure I want him back and as per LoA teachings, if you feel it in your hand and mind then it is real, but what if I have difficulty feeling it? The feelings for him will not go away over time but maybe just stay buried. When they say time heals all wounds I think it just means that time makes you forget certain things, not heal. I want him back and I'm using the Law of assumption to recreate him as he was with me when we first started dating. He is in a different city and does not plan on coming back here, with the way the pandemic is going I am scared he won't come here till next year and I won't meet him in person. I know I have to ignore the reality and circumstances and just live in the end. But how do I alleviate all my fears?

 
Do what we discussed. Give it and yourself a chance. Your list of 3 things that you said you were going to do was perfect. Now just do it and stop worrying. Stop repeating the old story over and over. You're only reinforcing it and making things worse for yourself, creating more and more fears. Get off the internet and go and do the work This is not doing you any good. Posting about your fears over and over is not getting you anywhere, and it makes me feel like I've wasted so much time and energy replying to your private messages in so much detail and with so much encouragement and thought I'd got through, but apparently it was all for nothing, and if you think I'm annoyed, you're right.

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Need help with my SP » 7/23/2020 8:30 pm

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You don't need any more help and advice. You need to apply the help and advice you've been given consistently over a period of time, ignore everything that is contrary to your desired end result, refrain from checking and testing to see if there has been a change in the last 5 minutes, have some patience and some faith, and persevere. Go straight to the end in your imagination and stay there, and don't concern yourself with how long you think it's taking or how or if it's going to happen or anything else. It takes as long as it takes. Give it and yourself a chance. You're just setting yourself up for disappointment otherwise.

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » need help with detaching while manifesting an ex » 7/23/2020 4:43 pm

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sync111 wrote:

Thank you cynthia for your advice,ive been living in the end.
and thank you so much  veronica, your advice gave me a relief. I started aiming for a neutral state and i manifested it and ive been very successful, i also started RS'ing and feeling and knowing that it happened and reached him. I have been living in the end and felt like its a done deal. I felt it in my heart that he broke up and is only in love with me, i kept this up for 10 days and now suddenly i was dragged into his workplace by a friend and i bumped into my sp and 3party and it broke me to pieces, especially because he was saying the same things to her that he used to say to me before when we were together.  i am trying to continuously affirm that he is mine and im trying to live in the end but it hurts. any advice would be appreciated. i am so sad that i dont wanna perform RS in this state, i want to get out of this

 
It has only been a matter of days. You can't expect something dramatic to happen in such a short time. You may find it helpful to tell yourself that what happened is the old reality, that what you are doing by living in the end is changing that and that the new reality is coming but hasn't had a chance to happen yet.

I've had some pretty bad knocks myself, so I know what it's like, but you've got to stay strong and focussed only on the end result you want and ignore everything else. Put the third party out of your mind as much as possible, don't try to rub her out or get rid of her, that is putting too much focus on her existence and also making her important. Instead, put all of your focus on the two of you and what you want to have with him and continue to live in the end. A third party would not be there in the end. You've got to have faith and give this some time.

I don't agree with remote seduction. It seems like messing in the middle to me, trying to manipulate somebody mentally to do something. When you live in the end, you don't manipulate anybod

Veronica's 25 Day Challenge » How do I find a girl at 45? » 7/23/2020 4:11 pm

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EdwardKib wrote:

Hi. I'm not a young guy anymore. I want to meet a girl. Tinder, Mamba, Badoo don't offer, I've already tried it. I want to communicate, love and sex) But I'm shy.

 
Your age doesn't matter, and you don't have to look for or know anybody. Before you go to sleep is a good time to do this. Imagine yourself happily married to the right person, say to yourself that you are loved and wanted, make it as vividly real in your mind as possible, feel like you have it already, wear an imaginary wedding ring if marriage is what you want, at least have an open mind, faith is better, and in due course the person will appear. There was a lady a lot older than 45 who wanted to have someone. I think she was a widow. She did what I mentioned above, and just a couple of weeks later she met a retired pharmacist who was a widower. They fell in love, got married, and she also got to travel because he had the money to enable them to do that, so more than one of her desires was fulfilled at the same time.

I met my husband in an unusual way. I wasn't looking for anyone and wanted to get married at some future point but not necessarily at that particular time. When I decided I wanted to marry him, and this was long before I ever heard of Neville, I imagined being married to him and wearing an imaginary wedding ring, and we were married for many years. My current SP also came out of nowhere from an even more unusual source, and I wasn't looking for him, either.

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » To wait or take action? » 7/23/2020 11:06 am

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Sel wrote:

I did read the reddit threat. Thanks This is encouraging. Do you have any tips on how to deal with hurt feelings? i find myself getting mad at my SP for the way he broke up and how callously I feel he  behaved. and some of the things he said, I have tired letting go of all the negative things he said. But sometimes I get these tiny bursts of anger. How do I deal with those ? While still trying to live in the end.

 
I have felt the same way about someone, and initially I did the ho'oponopono prayer, which did help a lot, at least for awhile. Since then, though, what has probably helped me a lot more is learning about Neville's concept of everybody being you pushed out. If you haven't listened to his Mental Diets, that should help you understand it. It's always easy to blame the other person - been there, done that - but when you really think about what has happened and realise that in some way you have been/are unwittingly creating that situation yourself, you also realise you have the power to change that from within yourself.  What we experience on the outside is all coming from within, we just don't know that. Virtually everybody is taught the very opposite from birth, so how could we know any differently until somebody who knows better teaches us?

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » To wait or take action? » 7/23/2020 2:18 am

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Sel wrote:

I did watch the videos. Thanks Cynthia. The Imagination video helped. I am trying to imagine that I am already living with him. I guess I am just having trouble believing that he misses me or will feel about me again of his own accord. The urge to text him is really strong, but like Veronica said I should not text him next month either and just believe that he will. Will update if he does contact me. Even as I type these words that small niggling voice of doubt pops up and says He said he is done so his feelings are gone etc. I am trying really hard to stop those doubting voices and just imagine him and me on dates instead and going home together. I just don't know how to consistently keep the unwavering faith that he will contact me

 
If you need some success stories to give you some confidence, there are some great ones on the Neville reddit. So many people have felt like they've lost a person forever for one reason or another, but when they have followed Neville's teachings they've got that person back. There are a couple of really good ones where they go into detail about what they did and didn't do. You've just got to have faith, be patient, persevere, live in the end, and not worry. You don't have to be perfect at all times, either. There have been some people who messed up very badly, felt that they had done everything wrong, but pulled themselves together and succeeded in the end.

No Contact » LOA SP INFINIDELITY » 7/22/2020 2:35 pm

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MariellaSolis wrote:

Hello Veronica!
Thank you for everything you share with us. I have an SP that I feel conflicted about .He has a history of Infidelity, had cheated on me until I decided to move out of our home with our son. He did not stop me. He now lives with this woman, & is always upset with me because I feel sad, hurt and jealous. I feel used because I helped him get a green card and if I divorce him he says I’m taking him away from his son. I feel conflicted mainly because of our history and don’t know how to overcome those feeling while manifesting. I can’t seem to get past the hurt and am always wondering if I should just try to manifest someone else. I am constantly blocking him since all we have are disagreements So it only makes him get more upset. Just hoping for some guidance on how to shift this. I currently blocked him because he told me some very hurtful things last night. I’m not sure what to do but blocking him I feel gives me a break. Any advice would be of incredible help. I watch your videos every day. I am from Schaumburg, IL. Lol I also purchased an email package from team Veronica and am currently waiting to be contacted. Again thank you so much!

 
You've got to get clear on what you really want first. If you really want this person, I would suggest looking into Neville's concept of everybody being you pushed out. I learnt the hard way how true that is. Also listening to his recording on mental diets is a good starting point. The man spoke the truth. There's no one better.

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » To wait or take action? » 7/22/2020 2:40 am

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Sel wrote:

Oh okay. Yes it makes sense to not text him again. But It's just that there is so much I want to talk to him about, so much I want to ask him about, I want to know what is going on with his B school Ivy League applications, his family etc. I am controlling myself and not texting. I miss him and I miss talking to him. I am  trying to imagine having conversations with him. So I should focus and believe that he will reach out to me correct? 
That little doubt of What if he does not? keeps popping up in my head. I am trying to quite that voice down but it is just so difficult. 
Thank you for the youtube link! Shall watch it

 
Whatever your ultimate desire is, go straight to the end and stay there in your imagination, making it as vividly real as possible, like you are experiencing it right now and like you have it right now. Live it in your mind. All possibilities exist, so choose only the one you want. Make it the ideal, what it is that you really want, not what you think it is possible for you to have. Feel the way you would feel if that desire was already an accomplished fact. Believe that your sustained imaginal acts create facts because they, in fact, do. The communication with him will have to fall into place along with everything else. Don't worry about how and when this will happen, just have faith that it will and be patient. Neville explains all of this.

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Need Help On How To Progress From Here....want my SP badly » 7/21/2020 3:33 pm

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Kriyah wrote:

Hey All.....This is Kriyah, from India. I'll try and keep my story short here. 
Last year i was working with a guy, lets call him "S". I was really attracted to him but we never talked about anything apart from work related stuff. One day I gathered enough courage and asked him out. He couldn't make it that day as he was going out of town. Next week it was him who asked me out with another friend of his. I don't know what took over me that day but I kept quiet most of the time. But I really really felt those butterfies in my stomach. After that day every time I asked him out, he happened to have some plans or the other. One night I asked him if he was single and he said yes. He even said that he couldn't make it in the last few weeks, he'd liek to go for a movie some time later. I was soooooo happy and I really felt like he liked me. Then few weeks later, I was a little drunk and finally ended up proposing him. He said he wasn't looking for a relationship and we can be friends. 
Since then, it's always me who ends up texting him. Previously, atleast he used to reply to my messages. Now, he doesn't even reply. I've tried ignoring....I've tried moving on.....I've tried guided manifestations even. Nothing is working as of now. I really really want him to like me, to be with me and everything. But somehow I'm just not able to manifest that.
Can someone here please help me or guide me as to how I can turn the situation from here????? Do I still have a chance to get him to like me????
Also, do let me know if you ever faced anything like this and how you managed to get the guy you wanted. That'd be really helpful too.
Gosh....I sound so desperate to manifest him and I know that's negative energy. I just need to control my emotions and get him to be with me. Someone please help https://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons3/sad.png

 
I'm going to mostly copy what I just told somebody else because it's just as relevant to you. Do nothing to

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