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Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » Specific Person Success Story I Guess » 3/27/2019 2:40 pm

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Cynthia wrote:

How is this a success story, apart from having contact with this person again after a long time, contact that has led nowhere, where nothing had changed in the interim, and which has left you feeling hurt all over again and saying that you want nothing more to do with the person? (That all could still be changed if you wanted it to be.)

I went back and read your lengthy story from 2015 or 2016, and this outcome was inevitable with all of that letting go, vibration, seeing signs, and using social media posts as a gauge crap. Signs follow, they don't precede, and visualising and trying to make yourself feel positive is not going far enough. You stated that you had been 'really reading up on Neville'. If you would have followed his advice and had faith in it and persisted long enough, the outcome would have been very different. When Neville wanted to marry his second wife, he lived in the end in his imagination of having the marriage with her just the way he wanted it to be until it happened in the outside world. It's the feeling of having the relationship already and making it as real as possible in the imagination that is the important thing. Imagination plus faith. I did the same thing myself, long before I ever heard of Neville, and was married for a very long time, and now I'm doing exactly the same thing with my current SP. This does not mean obsessing over the person, by the way. It wasn't the sole focus in Neville's or in my life. What you've described doing is more like trying to hit a ball whilst your back is turned on it, and with stating numerous times that you didn't care I don't see how any other outcome could have been expected.

I was simply stating my experience and how, over time, I just no longer had interest in my person. It was a success: I manifested contact which is something that I wanted and I could've even met up with him, but it just no longer felt right. All the LOA work before started to feel obsessive to me and I bec

Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » Specific Person Success Story I Guess » 3/26/2019 1:22 pm

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So I don’t want to completely rehash my origin story with this person of interest, but if you look back in my archives you’ll see what all happened. Basically back in 2015 he was the reason I became interested in LOA, he’s what I came on these forums for help attracting back, etc. I really put a lot of time into trying to attract him back, then I didn’t see any results so I just gave up, moved on, was happy.
 
Then I matched with him on Tinder this past October and we started “talking” again. It was kind of crazy because I really had given up on him. I had a great job, was talking to people, had my own interests. I just let go and didn’t care anymore. Now I would still social media creep. In fact, a few weeks before we matched I lurked on his Insta and saw him in a few pics with this one guy and it seemed like they were together. Which did hurt, I’ll admit. But then we matched so I figured they broke up.
 
I thought about finally posting the success story I’d been dreaming about in this forum. I couldn’t believe it. After all this time, we had matched and HE reached out to ME. But he said nothing about what happened and eventually communication died out. Communication was a big problem the last time we were together, so I was waiting for him to make the first move (since I had done all the effort last time). I figured I’d wait for that to happen before posting on here.
 
Well a few months passed without us talking. But this time I didn’t care. I just went about my life. Eventually I did reach out, things died out again, but then he reached out again. It continued like this in this pattern with me unsure of his true intentions and waiting for him to make a move until this past Sunday.
 
He reached out to me (good) but then started talking about how horny he is and he brought up this one time we got a hotel together way back then and then I asked him what he was looking for and he said, “Just fun. Nothing serious.” It just hurt because

Help me align please... 🙈 » Dog walking guy - Can i manifest him? » 2/25/2018 7:47 am

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I recently had a crush on the guy whose apartment is right above me. I wanted to manifest at least becoming his friend. I used to just pass him in the hallway and briefly talk to him. I was pining after him and wanted to ask him to hang out but he always seemed standoffish and like he was in a hurry. Well, flashforward a few weeks: HE was asking ME for my number. A few weeks after that we hung out and now we're friends. Wrote about it in this post: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=7511

Basically I just kept telling myself it was all going to work out. Even when I'd go weeks without seeing him, I just still believed even when it was super difficult. A visualized a little bit, but nothing super intense. Anything's possible. Let the universe surprise you.

Flying High 🚀💜💫 » For those that still doubt - Please read! » 1/27/2018 6:52 pm

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What is PW and BWD, rubbing out and cutting the cord?

Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » Success Story in Progress » 11/15/2017 10:03 pm

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Posted this in the "need alignment" section of the forum but now things have turned out. Head on over if you want to hear a cool story:

http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?pid=59478#p59478

Help me align please... 🙈 » Help attracting specific person who lives above me. » 11/15/2017 10:02 pm

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Holy moly something awesome just happened!

It had been a while since I ran into him so I finally just let go of my need to control the situation and in a way stopped caring about the outcome. I got really busy and preoccupied with my life (applying to grad school, job hunting, family stuff, etc.). I'd still hear the footsteps but I would still just mind my own business and only go out when it's something I would do on my own.

Well tonight I had this feeling that I wanted to go for a walk. The thought crossed my mind (because I had heard his footsteps above me and then I thought I heard his door close) that he might be heading outside but I wasn't attached to it or anything. I just thought "if I run into him great, if not it's just a regular walk like always".

So I walk outside and guess who's there and he say hi as usual and THEN he asks me what I'm up to for Thanksgiving. We get to talking and randomly HE asks ME to hang out sometime, grab a beer and he asks for my number. No provocation from me whatsoever. It was like everything I ever visualized. It completely blew my mind. I don't know when it'll happen or what's gonna happen but I'm just going to let it flow. He even mentioned that he's moving soon pretty far away. But despite that and despite that he doesn't know me that well and despite that he's a med student with not a whole lot of down time he STILL asked me. I had to do nothing.

[color=#000000]I guess I learned that things really do happen when you let go. SOme real shitty things have been happening to me lately but I haven't let them get to me and I've been keeping my head held high and even though I've rarely seen this guy around the past few weeks I still kept faith that things would work out and now they have....and I didn't even have to do anything! I always thought I was going to be the one who had to ask him but nope he did without any urging on my part.

Help me align please... 🙈 » Help attracting specific person who lives above me. » 11/05/2017 1:10 pm

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Hey, so I used to be on this forum a lot and now I'm back trying to attract a specific person. We'll call him S. So S is this hot guy who lives in my apartment building who a few months back I started noticing around and definitely thought he was hot, my type and might possibly be into guys. Wasn't really attached to him, but definitely wanted to find out more about him. We'd pass each other in the halls and smile but nothing more. Finally, one day we had a fire alarm go off (it was just some kind of malfunction) and we both were outside and we got to talking and talked for a while. I was super happy that this "incident" had happened b/c I knew it was LOA at work. Still, I let go and went about my life. We would continue to run into each other in the hall, sometimes not talking much, sometimes pleasantries, sometimes longer conversations about things in the apartment. One night I hooked up with this other guy who it turns out goes to the same med school as S (the med school is right across from our apartment) and he knew of S but doesn't think he's into guys. "He's just friendly". I really think is though. I have a feeling from the way he says "hi" or "good to see you" (which is something I don't normally say to people I casually know from my apartment). Eventually, after one or two more good conversations I would like to ask him to a beer and see where things go from there. If it turns out he is straight then that's still cool b/c at least I'll have a new friend.

But now here's the tricky part. The last time I talked to him he told me he lives on the second floor, last door on the right. Well, I live on the first floor, last on the right. I know the way the units are constructed one on top of the other and there's a 99% chance he lives directly above me (I also have some other evidence to believe this is true). Problem is: I can hear him walking around above me and it kind of drives me crazy. I can't hear him talk or anything like that, but the creaks the floors m

Help me align please... 🙈 » Mono and Specific Person » 7/26/2017 9:53 pm

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This is a weird situation and I’m not sure how to approach it from a LOA standpoint:
 
So back in April I started seeing this guy and we hung out a few times over the course of the next two months. He was really great and we really started getting close but his ex was still in the picture so there’d be times where he would ghost me because he was trying to get back together with his ex. Then I’d reach out and he’d come back and everything would be great for a week or so and he’d say all these nice things, but then the cycle would repeat and he’d try to get back with his ex. Finally a few weeks ago I just told him not to reach out to me again until he was completely over his ex.
 
I would like to see him again but I’ve been trying to move on. But recently I’ve been feeling sick and I found out yesterday I have mono. I did the math and I probably got it from him (there’s one other person I kissed around the same time I also could’ve gotten it from; or some type of contaminated silverware or a million other weird scenarios I got it from). There’s also a small possibility I could’ve given it to him.
 
My question: should I reach out and tell him? I feel like the part of me that wants to reach out to him is the “inner child” part of me that still wants to have a connection with him and who wants to force things into happening (and maybe even play the victim a little bit by being like “look at the pain you put me through with this”). I know a part of attracting someone back is no contact and this would obviously break that. But am I required to let him know that he could’ve possibly been exposed to or given me mono? Does that supersede the “no contact” tenet of LOA? If he did have it or I did give it him he’d probably be experiencing symptoms by now. He also could’ve carried it and never have any symptoms. I also could’ve not gotten it from him at all. I don’t know. Part of me also realizes this isn’t anything fatal like

Flying High 🚀💜💫 » They always come back! » 6/04/2017 5:54 am

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MIS wrote:

Hi All,
Seems like a lot of new people are here just want to share a few pointers.

I was also here wanting to attract A. I did lots of work. Self love/ grateful practices and what not. Only to find him on tinder 4 months later found by one of my friend. I was devasted to say the least. I put it in so much work and yet he was on tinder while all the past interests everybody contacted me at some point! Since I was new to LOA, I did not know that was an echo, I let it get to me and as you would know he became more distanced from me. But I also told myself, Im not going to pursue him any longer and I decided to practice my work not for him, but for myself! I mean there were so many times i felt good while doing them so went back to it .

I met B randomly some night. We hit off very well. The most amazing part of this story. He was everything I was looking for in A. The universe is amazing when it works its magic. I had so many deja-vu moments. Whatever I wanted to do with A, B will suggest/ say it to me word by word. A while of getting to know B , it dawned me that OMG, that few months I was looking to attract A, I actually lost myself. I was so focused on him.I forgot myself and got pulled into something I did not even realise I was doing. B and I are having such wonderful moments and Im so thankful cause the universe did deliver it to me. Everything that I asked! How amazing is that?!
Funny thing is, When I finally got myself back, i barely thought of A. When I do, I give thanks for our short experience together. B has mutual friends with A. 8 or 10 months later, B hears that A regrets letting me go and he realised he fucked up. He tried contacting me a few times , I refused to text back. He is still on my FB though he likes every **** of mine and comments on them something which he never use to do. But I do not want him back not because Im arrogant or I want to prove him a point but because I now know first hand, the universe amazing powers. I know how ha

Help me align please... 🙈 » LOA and dating/relationships » 6/02/2017 9:55 pm

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Hey, I haven't posted in a while. When I first started using LOA it really was focused on attracting a specific person. But since then I've used it to improve so many other areas of my life. I never got that person back, but I got myself back. Now I've met someone great and we've been seeing each other, but I'm starting to feel old limiting beliefs and habits come up.

The guy I was trying to attract before was emotionally unavailable and bad at communicating sometimes and I often felt like I was doing most of the effort and was sometimes being too clingy or trying too hard.

I feel really different compared to last time. I'm much more confident and secure, but this new guy is somewhat the same way in terms of communication (though not nearly as bad). I feel myself slipping back into old habits sometimes (trying too hard, overanalyzing, getting way too anxious) and I'm trying to use all that I've learned from LOA to chill out. But it's difficult because I'm still not exactly sure how to use LOA when it comes to a relationship/dating since before I was so focused on just ATTRACTING a person so I never gave much thought to what happens after.

To anyone out there who is in a great relationship, I'm looking for advice. I don't want to be the only one communicating again and the guy I'm seeing is getting better, but how do I know when to be putting forth effort and when I should just sit back and let him do the work? And what about when it comes to confrontation, like when he does something that bothers me. How do I confront it when LOA/ Abraham Hicks says to ignore it. How do you deal with confrontation in a relationship?

I guess basically I just want to know how you guys date with LOA. How do you communicate? How do you confront someone about a problem you're having with them?

Also, how do you feel more confident and secure in yourself (this guy is really attractive and I know I'm getting pretty attractive now but I still slip back into thinking about who I was when

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