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Help me align please... 🙈 » Been awhile. I feel like I’m going insane » 9/10/2019 12:02 pm

Hello all,

So long story short. I feel like I’m going insane. I have been in a bad spot 2 months ago and feel a bit better but my belief in the law was shaken. I tried self soothing and just self talk but when I get into a better place I see something that is based on my fears. I have been doing so much to help myself. Last night I saw something that was fear based again. I feel like I’m loosing my mind. I’m doing all sorts of things to help myself and feel better and then they work and negative synchronized stuff seems to show up. It  petrifies me. I don’t know what to do. My belief is very much shaken. I thought I knew things but I don’t feel like I do anymore. Why are there negative synchronization when I’ve been building myself back up and things? It makes it hard for me to even try to manifest what I’m wanting because it seems like no matter what I do to help myself they still show up.

Oh and the fears I’ve had aren’t entirely related to things I’m trying to manifest it’s just fears and so it makes it hard to try to manifest what I want because my belief is so shaken by this.

Help me align please... 🙈 » Is it possible? Help with my block! » 7/27/2019 1:40 pm

fizzy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I'm sitting in the pub with my two best friends now and interrupting my time with them to respond. I agree with Kasper's sentiment as applied to myself and that is the approach I would take if it applied to me. In no way am I advising Olive to take that approach. I personally would not invest time on a person I'd known for a short time who had disappeared as I wouldn't be able to make a judgment about them after two encounters. Others may want to do things differently and that is their right. It's important to decide for yourself what's worth spending time on. That is the point I'm making.

But even just saying that you can’t make a judgment about the person after two encounters is a failure to recognize that YOU create them. There’s no judgment to be made. They don’t have their own personality. YOU create their personality and have the ability to change it — utterly and completely. That’s exactly what ‘Everyone is you pushed out’ MEANS. There is no other meaning to it. So that being said, do you now see why we’ve been saying to you what we have? We are trying to get you to see that even the way you, yourself, would approach this is not in line with conscious creation. And that’s fine. But when you comment on someone’s post who is looking for LOA advice, this isn’t helpful to them. In fact, it’s confusing. Four people have told you this now.

I’m sorry if you feel attacked, you are the one we are all bringing up because it’s YOUR responses that four of us disagree with.

Also sorry if you felt you needed to take time out from being with friends to respond. The beauty of a forum is you have the freedom to respond any time you can.


Help me align please... 🙈 » Is it possible? Help with my block! » 7/27/2019 1:19 pm

fizzy wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

I haven't even looked at this forum for over a month and probably won't again, but this has disintegrated into an attack on PrettyFlamingo, and that's not right or justified. She's the only person who has done any real moderation on here for years, and she's been more than fair. Nobody else has cared enough to even be bothered. PF has come a very long way. I understand what she means. It's got nothing to do with the concept of everybody being you pushed out, which I fully agree with. Neither she nor anybody else has said it's not possible for the OP to manifest a relationship with the person in question.

“I don't understand why you would even want a guy who after he is intimate with you disappears then tells you he wants someone else???  You only had 2 dates ( if Im reading that right) you didn't even know him but you know now he is not a good guy...let this loser go   sorry but someone had to say it... he just showed you he is NOT into you and only wanted one thing.he  got it now he is MIA......and you still want him??? lordy people come on...”

Above is Kasper’s comment copy and pasted. PF said she strongly agrees with what Kasper has said here. How does this fall in line with the concept of ‘Everyone is you pushed out’? If PF strongly agrees with this viewpoint, it DOES go against ‘Everyone is you pushed out’. And that’s why the concept was brought up.

I’m not sure why you are viewing this as an attack on PF. All we are saying is things that are clearly not in line with conscious creation, which Kasper’s comment clearly isn’t, should not be allowed here. And honestly, the fact that a moderator on a conscious creation forum ‘strongly agrees’ with such a comment is a bit frustrating. I’m not sugar coating that.

Honestly If Cynthia views this as an attack on PF she needs to view her many many posts saying “disregard this persons advice and this ones and this ones advice all you need is Nevil

Help me align please... 🙈 » Is it possible? Help with my block! » 7/27/2019 10:34 am

fizzy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Selflove: Reread your fourth sentence. That is exactly what I have said.

This may be what you intend to say, but it’s not what you actually say to people. Often the comments I see from you are something along the lines of “Why would you want a person who does xyz...”. Which is again, completely ignoring the fact that everyone is you pushed out. Which is ignoring the fact that you create everything. Which is ignoring LOA and in no way relevant to LOA.

I’m not sure why you pointed out one sentence in her post but ignored the rest of what she, Anita, and I have said. I guess it’s all falling on deaf ears.

Selfloveiskey, if you see this, I completely agree. If nothing is going to change and it’s all being ignored and falling on deaf ears, I think there’s really no point in partaking in discussion here. Personally, I’ve found Reddit has some good conscious creation forums. All irrelevant comments are always deleted by moderators.

Agreed. I’ve seen the same comments for years heck even on my old posts ( some not here)  and I did end up getting my guy back more then once. Obviously I still had stuff to learn but I was told time and again why would you want him back get someone better. But yet they got mad when I questioned loa? Doesn’t make sense. Now he actually said a lot of things I visualized and has been so sweet and loving to me for a long time. I remember when I felt horrible and those comments just didn’t help and made me doubt loa more because it seemed like there was always a catch. It didn’t help me,  strangely enough when I stepped away for awhile and was on my own that did more then here lol But yeah there is no point to doing this if they don’t listen. I ll have to check out reddit. I do think moderators here have favorites and they do get rid of the comments they don’t like that doesn’t fit their beliefs.

Help me align please... 🙈 » Is it possible? Help with my block! » 7/27/2019 9:49 am

I agree so much. This is an loa forum not a oh well you can’t change it and if you try you don’t have respect for yourself forum. I am all about self love and care. Take the time to figure out what you really want and if it’s something you want to do it. As with Anita from my experience so many people on this forum told me to give up and honestly if I had listened to them I wouldn’t have gotten where I had gotten or the beliefs I have. It was my journey. I agree everyone decides for themselves but like telling someone something based on their current circumstances is also pushing their limited beliefs. Telling them that they are true. It is completely against loa. Because we are always manifesting even when we think we are not. We aren’t just sometimes and there are exceptions it’s everything. There are many times when I do pop back into this forum that I see non loa comments. So really this forum has lost its loa magic.

Help me align please... 🙈 » Is it possible? Help with my block! » 7/27/2019 9:46 am

Anita wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Please remember everyone that this is a discussion board, and therefore we will find a variety of views and observations. It's up to everyone to read comments and make their own conclusions. I wouldn't expect spoon feeding direction or recipes. We will find a selection of responses and not everyone will agree. I'm sure there is no intention to confuse anyone, but there is room for discussion without argument.

For myself, I will give my own view on something but would never direct someone. We need to have a space for healthy debate without argument or conflicts.

As a moderator I will remove posts that are irrelevant and disruptive, but not those that are part of healthy debate such as Kasper's (and indeed my own). That is not confusing, misdirection or in contradiction of law of attraction or conscious creation. Instead it's mature discussion. My comment was around considering why you want something and there's nothing wrong with that. It's something I would ask myself before starting to manifest something as I feel it's important to me to know that. But that is my own approach, not advice, and not contradicting conscious creation.

As an example relating to the original post, it's entirely possible that the guy being discussed was fresh from a break up and not over his ex. It's also entirely possible for Olive to achieve a relationship with the guy (living in the end, mental diet, changing your chatter and so on) as Fizzy has pointed out.

I think that Every comment should be delete if have nothing with loa..its not helping what he wrote ..Its just do confusion and  it create negative beliefs that her sp never change and she should be  move on..I dont like  if I read advice who has nothing with the past when I wanted advice and you commented from non loa perspective so I didnt feel better because this type advice I can read on other forum where people dont know loa.. 


Help me align please... 🙈 » Is it possible? Help with my block! » 7/26/2019 9:03 pm

fizzy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I agree with both of you. Fizzy is right about consciously creating, but I also strongly agree with Kasper too. If someone did that - but I wouldn't have sex with anyone unless it was a strong, committed relationship - then personally I'd feel they didn't deserve me and I deserved better. I'd not waste my time with an individual like this. I'd be tempted to look at why you want to turn around what was a couple of hook ups, if I'm reading it correctly. Is it because you've slept with the guy you feel it should be a serious relationship?

Yes we can consciously create but that doesn't mean we HAVE to. And there's always room for a bit of analysis as to why we really want, or think we want, something.

But PrettyFlamingo, here’s the thing... everyone is just us pushed out, right? They aren’t us pushed out ‘sometimes’ or ‘only in some situations’. So if you experience someone treating you badly, it’s always still going to be you pushed out. It’s never the other person. It’s always you creating them to be that way.

So the ‘LOA’ approach to something like this is always going to be “What belief am I holding that caused them to show up in my reality that way?”. It’s never going to be “Oh that’s just the way they are and I deserve better, so I’m moving on”. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with deciding to move on. But my point is, there is only one ‘LOA’ way to look at this. And it will only always be that you created it. Any viewpoint that says you didn’t create this is immediately not ‘LOA’.

You’re right that we can choose not to consciously create, but we are always creating, so you can never choose to not create. Saying you can ‘turn off’ your manifesting abilities at will also goes against absolutely everything ‘LOA’.

I’m not trying to start any sort of conflict, just trying to explain myself. I agree there’s room for analysis, as you’ve said. But even any s

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Do past negative thoughts manifest? » 6/25/2019 8:50 am

I be heard we can change it . If you are working to get past it you are fine. But curious about others thoughts.

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Veronica, no moderation here, when are you going to change that? » 5/21/2019 8:09 am

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

It's making a joke of the forum when someone is posting juvenile nonsense under multiple usernames and managed to fool at least one longstanding member that they were genuine!

Who is this person?

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Curious about manifesting my SP » 5/19/2019 5:13 pm

Rainflower wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

What have you actually been doing to try to manifest the relationship? Have you been living in the end?

As stated before there are more ideas out there then neville. Respect it. They also stare exactly what they been doing in the post. Please read that before commenting it just comes across as nasty. If you are wanting details then ask for details like what is apart of your mental diet.


You’re welcome. I just check here every now and then to see if other people are getting bullied for posting or sarcastic comments or being told what they are doing is not right. People have their own processes some things that work for others and helping their beliefs don’t work for different people. The key is what helps you with your beliefs and all that. It’s not fun to get those comments when you are still learning yourself. I’ve heard this isn’t the nicest forum from many people now. I can see why. It use to be super great though.

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