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Remote Seduction/Influence » Manifest ex back - it worked, but he's gone again -Need perspectives- » 12/13/2019 12:55 am

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My SP has always struggled to figure out how he feels about me and about our relationship the first time round we dated, and that was probably the cause of our first break up. And then I started practicing manifestation, and the law of attraction, and let me tell you - the law of attraction totally works. I was able to manifest my SP back, and it happened almost exactly the way I visualized it. But then shortly after we started seeing each other again and going on dates (for about a month), he retracted, and wanted to end things for the same reason.

Here's the issue: my SP struggles with a lot of internal issues, some of the things he's brought up include self hate, depression, past traumas he's repressed and other things he says he needs to emotionally unpack. I'm aware that these things can cloud a person's judgement, question their feelings, dull their interest in things and more. My perspective is that he does really like me, but brain is too foggy to recognize what it is that he feels, and during our breakup he probably got a bit better emotionally, hence the reaching out and wanting to get back together. But now is in another depressive episode, hence the withdrawal and the lack of feelings again. I have this gut feeling that him and I are meant to work out someday, so I'm not too worried about manifesting our relationship, however if he doesn't resolve these personal issues first then I feel like they'll always be a hurdle in our relationship. 

My question is, what should I be doing in this case where mental health is involved? Usually emotional / mental issues take time to recover from, so if I manage to manifest him back within a short period of time, I feel like maybe that wouldn't be enough time for him to get better. Should I keep manifesting? I want the next time we get back together to be the final stop, not this back and forth thing.

Perspectives and advices are appreciated! Thank you

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